Bereavement

greatauntoftriplets

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32. No, you can't.

Reply to Wounded Bear (Reply #29)

Sat Oct 23, 2021, 11:23 PM

Oct 2021

I have to wonder if his refusal to get what he needed wasn't caused in part by the head injury itself.

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My 41-year-old nephew died suddenly yesterday. [View all] greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 OP

Oh no, I'm so sorry DUgosh Oct 2021 #1

Thanks. We're all in a state of disbelief. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #9

My condolences to you. This is so sad. Nt spooky3 Oct 2021 #2

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #10

I am so sorry to hear this. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #3

Thanks. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #11

Oh my. MontanaMama Oct 2021 #4

Thanks, MM. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #15

I am so very sorry. nt CottonBear Oct 2021 #5

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My deepest sympathy Rorey Oct 2021 #6

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #17

I am sorry your family is going through this. AJT Oct 2021 #7

Thanks for your kind words and stating it so perfectly. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #19

What a horrible thing to happen. Equomba Oct 2021 #8

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #20

oh no! Kali Oct 2021 #12

Thanks, it's all so difficult to comprehend. And senseless. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #22

This hurts my heart greatly. I'm so, so sorry. So very tragic sprinkleeninow Oct 2021 #13

Thank you. My heart is hurting, too. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #23

I'm so sorry, greataunt.. Cha Oct 2021 #14

Thanks, Cha. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #24

I am so very sorry for your incredible loss. Sending vibes for healing and peace for niyad Oct 2021 #18

Thanks for the healing vibes. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #25

I am so sorry. Solly Mack Oct 2021 #21

It sure can, and I know that you've been through such a lot recently. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #26

So sad to hear this, my heart is with you. cayugafalls Oct 2021 #27

Thanks. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #30

So very sorry! AwakeAtLast Oct 2021 #28

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #31

Sad. You can't mess around with head injuries... Wounded Bear Oct 2021 #29

No, you can't. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #32

Perhaps, but the career he was in always has the danger of the macho attitude... Wounded Bear Oct 2021 #79

And he did have that attitude. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #93

What a tragedy for all close to him. My condolences to you. kairos12 Oct 2021 #33

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #35

This is such a tragedy. Desert grandma Oct 2021 #34

It's a horrible loss, still hard to accept. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #36

That poor little boy. Demobrat Oct 2021 #37

Yeah, we're all worried about him. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #42

I am so very sorry. Deepest condolences to you and your family. skylucy Oct 2021 #38

Thanks very much. I appreciate your kind words. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #43

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 2021 #39

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #44

Speaking from experience, it might never SheltieLover Oct 2021 #50

I'm so very sorry cate94 Oct 2021 #40

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #45

My thoughts are with you. applegrove Oct 2021 #41

Thank you. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #46

Oh my god, what a terrible tragedy, I feel sooo sorry for his secondwind Oct 2021 #47

It really is a tragedy. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #54

TBI and bipolar - two conditions soldierant Oct 2021 #48

This is a very important point for GAOT SheltieLover Oct 2021 #53

From what I hear, she did her best. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #62

I'm sure she did her best SheltieLover Oct 2021 #65

You are so welcome. soldierant Oct 2021 #119

They sure are dangerous! SheltieLover Oct 2021 #122

She may well be, but her grown children from her first marriage are all coming home. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #56

Was his 13 y/o son present when he refused to go? SheltieLover Oct 2021 #67

I don't know what time it happened. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #69

Poor kiddo. SheltieLover Oct 2021 #70

Really. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #73

My condolences to you and all your family. relayerbob Oct 2021 #49

Thanks for your wishes. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #57

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #64

I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Oct 2021 #51

He was quite a guy -- all 6' 4" of him. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #58

I am so sorry. murielm99 Oct 2021 #52

Thank you. It's a terrible blow. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #59

I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #55

Thank you, it was a shock. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #60

Oh, dear. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #61

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #63

Honestly, my sister and I are not completely hopeful. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #66

It's hard enough having a contemporary die. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #71

What a terrible loss for your family. Granny M Oct 2021 #68

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #72

I'm so very sorry! GPV Oct 2021 #74

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #83

I'm so sorry for your loss and so sad as I read this. My livetohike Oct 2021 #75

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #84

My deepest sympathy. sinkingfeeling Oct 2021 #76

I appreciate the thoughts. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #85

I'm so very sorry, GAOT. brer cat Oct 2021 #77

Aside from his youth, it's the suddenness of this that's hard to take. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #87

I am so sorry for your loss, GAOT. sheshe2 Oct 2021 #78

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #88

I'm so sorry for all who loved him. Ilsa Oct 2021 #80

Yes, they should be. And as a paramedic, he knew that. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #89

So sorry to hear this, very sad. George II Oct 2021 #81

Thanks for the thoughts. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #90

My condolences to you and your family. CentralMass Oct 2021 #82

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #91

So sorry for everyone IbogaProject Oct 2021 #86

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #92

A great tragedy. I'm so sorry, Greataunt. Hortensis Oct 2021 #94

Thanks for your wishes. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #95

I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2021 #96

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #97

greatauntoftriplets.... Upthevibe Oct 2021 #98

Thanks so much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #99

So sorry for your loss JohnSJ Oct 2021 #100

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #104

I'm so incredibly sorry. So tragic. 💔 onecaliberal Oct 2021 #101

Thanks, it's a terrible tragedy. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #105

This is so tragic that I don't even know what to say. femmedem Oct 2021 #102

Surreal is a good way to describe it. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #106

I'm so very sorry, Goddessartist Oct 2021 #103

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #107

So sorry for your loss GAOT mcar Oct 2021 #108

Thank you. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #109

Oh no... BumRushDaShow Oct 2021 #110

Thank you. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #111

Just thinking of you a few days back. What a sad thing to spark a message with. I am so sorry ... marble falls Oct 2021 #112

Thank you. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #115

LG's been busy. marble falls Oct 2021 #130

Deepest sympathy to you and your family greatauntoftriplets malaise Oct 2021 #113

Thanks so much, malaise. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #116

Indeed malaise Oct 2021 #118

That's very true. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #120

I'm so sorry, that's a real shock... CaptainTruth Oct 2021 #114

It really is, thanks. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #117

Oh, great-aunt, I'm so sorry. There are no words for this sueh Oct 2021 #121

Thanks so much for the vibes. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #124

I am so sorry wryter2000 Oct 2021 #123

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #126

I'm so sorry! calimary Oct 2021 #125

Thanks. It's good to not feel so alone. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #127

This is so sad. I am so sorry. My condolences to his family and friends. LoisB Oct 2021 #128

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #129

I'm very sorry for your loss dlk Oct 2021 #131

Thank you for the wishes. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #132

You're welcome dlk Oct 2021 #133

Words can't even start mahina Oct 2021 #134

You're absolutely correct. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #135

Very tragic, so sorry, my condolences, babylonsister Oct 2021 #136

Thanks very much. I appreciate your kind words. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #137

I'm so sorry for your loss. live love laugh Oct 2021 #138

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #142

I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 2021 #139

Thanks, yardwork. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #143

Life can be unbelievably cruel sometimes. yardwork Oct 2021 #150

This is definitely one of those instances. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #151

I am so sorry UpInArms Oct 2021 #140

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #144

Your post has brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry. Doodley Oct 2021 #141

That's so nice. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #145

I am so sorry. Susan Calvin Oct 2021 #146

Thanks very much. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #148

I'm sorry to hear this. SpankMe Oct 2021 #147

They definitely should not defer treatment. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #149