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Coping with Divorce or Separation

irisblue

(34,623 posts) Mon May 15, 2017, 10:18 AM May 2017

We seperated & divorced more then 4 yrs ago. Why do I still dream about her? [View all]

I haven't seen her in 3 years, I don't facebook stalk and can go weeks w/o a daytime thought now. So why did I dream about her this morning? I am confused.

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We seperated & divorced more then 4 yrs ago. Why do I still dream about her? [View all] irisblue May 2017 OP

I've been divorced since 1996 I still have the occasional dream about my ex TNLib May 2017 #1

She was a major part of your life, elleng May 2017 #2

elleng's comment is profoundly important PJMcK May 2017 #3

Thanks for recognizing this effect, PJMcK. elleng May 2017 #4

You're welcome PJMcK May 2017 #5

Memories die hard. CentralMass May 2017 #6

I do find it some upsetting to have my subconscious pull up those dreams irisblue May 2017 #7