Loners

cbayer

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3. My story is essentially the same as you.

Wed Mar 14, 2012, 08:41 PM

Mar 2012

I was surrounded by people up to 16 hours a day, 5 - 7 days a week. And I was in charge most of the time, so could not choose to not interact.

The boat has been my salvation, as I get to choose when to interact (which is not that often, but I really enjoy it when I do).

My boat is not in one location. We move around alot off the coast of Southern California. It's great, because if drama (or boredom or weather) kicks in, we just move. It's a great way to live. We are off the grid, very self sufficient and blissfully happy.

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How do you manage to get enough "alone time" in a relationship? [View all] dixiegrrrrl Mar 2012 OP

Great question. cbayer Mar 2012 #1

I think we have kinda been focusing on "loners" more dixiegrrrrl Mar 2012 #2

My story is essentially the same as you. cbayer Mar 2012 #3

Sounds great. dixiegrrrrl Mar 2012 #4

Things I miss cbayer Mar 2012 #5

Different Sleep Cycles AndyTiedye Aug 2012 #6

I understand that. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2012 #7

39 Years for Us AndyTiedye Aug 2012 #8

Easy. We live in two different places. no_hypocrisy Sep 2012 #9

My husband and I lived in different houses for 13 years. MadrasT Sep 2012 #10

"was great".....hmm..I am curious now dixiegrrrrl Sep 2012 #11

Life circumstances caused him to choose to move into my house. MadrasT Sep 2012 #13

One better: my parents for the last 2 decades of their marriage no_hypocrisy Sep 2012 #12

Sounds pretty good to me. MadrasT Sep 2012 #14

You have bragging rights for an "enduring" marriage with no divorce too. no_hypocrisy Sep 2012 #15

Mr. dixie has a friend with a similar, 20 + year marriage. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2012 #16

We too. FLyellowdog Sep 2012 #17

Sounds like y'all made the best of it. MadrasT Sep 2012 #22

I'm an introvert and my girlfriend is an extrovert. Alduin Sep 2012 #18

For along time it was hard for me to get as much space as I needed. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2012 #19

Yeah. Alduin Sep 2012 #20

It is SO hard for people to understand an introvert's needs, isn't it? dixiegrrrrl Sep 2012 #21