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Seeking Serenity

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21. I have to take issue with No. 2 on this list.
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 11:06 AM
Mar 2014

Last edited Thu Mar 20, 2014, 12:12 PM - Edit history (1)

While it is true that, as a general matter, men have greater upper-body strength than women (and that as a general matter, women have greater lower-body strength then men), I do not think it should matter one whit, either in law or in societal beliefs or expectations, that it should be deemed worse that a man act violently towards a woman than a woman acting violently toward a man. Both are bad and one is not inherently worse than the other.

I remember back in my college days (back in the 80s), on a night of club-hopping with friends, seeing a scene of a woman waylaying on a man, fists to face, kicking, the whole nine yards (had to be someone she knew, a date, a boyfriend, something, based on the things she was yelling at him). He was cowering, trying to protect himself, and then, he struck back. Immediately, a group from the street that had been watching this descended upon him and beat him even worse, yelling, "Dude, you don't hit a girl!" And the man was arrested. Not only was the woman not arrested, she suffered no opprobrium whatsoever from the crowd that was watching this horrible scene.

I'm sorry, but that's a double standard that favors women that I can't accept.

11 signs you're a men's rights activist: [View all] Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 OP
wow. twisted logic. they can tie theirselves in knots trying to justify and rationalize Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #1
This is an excellent JustAnotherGen Mar 2014 #2
Interesting Stargazer09 Mar 2014 #3
They're sad, pathetic trolls YoungDemCA Mar 2014 #4
it's depressing to see this stuff day after day Warpy Mar 2014 #5
Spot on! nt Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2014 #6
Yep, that's the MRAs.Frightened children. nt sufrommich Mar 2014 #7
I've got one! I've got one! Squinch Mar 2014 #8
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2014 #9
Great list. LeftOfWest Mar 2014 #10
Click the "DU Rec" button near the bottom-left of the post. jeff47 Mar 2014 #13
Thanks for reminding me to do that. Jackpine Radical Mar 2014 #14
Thank you jeff47! LeftOfWest Mar 2014 #16
Great list of Ironies! I just wish she'd chosen a word other than the d-bag word BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2014 #11
I just broke the rec button. Sorry folks. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #12
Or.... yuiyoshida Mar 2014 #15
Wow, so many of those seem depressingly familiar. geek tragedy Mar 2014 #17
Excellent! sheshe2 Mar 2014 #18
Heh! ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #19
Hah! Very good. Thanks! n/t freshwest Mar 2014 #20
I have to take issue with No. 2 on this list. Seeking Serenity Mar 2014 #21
And yet many more women are seriously injured and killed by male partners than the reverse. nomorenomore08 Mar 2014 #24
But I wasn't talking about the severity of the problem in terms of absolute numbers. Seeking Serenity Mar 2014 #26
Can't speak for others, but for me it's more an issue of relative size than of gender. nomorenomore08 Mar 2014 #27
k&r n/t JTFrog Mar 2014 #22
This is pretty good Shivering Jemmy Mar 2014 #23
I have to wonder if this "hypocrisy" is really deliberate and by design. nomorenomore08 Mar 2014 #25
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