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jimlup

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15. Except that there are cases in which it is true....
Sun May 25, 2014, 05:49 PM
May 2014

I recall a time a few years ago walking past a "Take Back the Night" rally on the campus where I was a graduate student. As a progressive male I was indeed sympathetic and even thought of joining the rally. As I listened I heard the speaker on stage declare that "All men are guilty of rape." And I'm not paraphrasing nor exaggerating. That indicated clearly to me that I was not welcome at the rally and the reason had to do with the Y chromosome with which I was born and could not choose to not have.

I'm very sympathetic to feminism and to women's causes and I recognize that statements such as "all men are guilty of rape" are the exception held by those who have their own serious problems. However, when a discussion turns towards discrimination against men because they are men, as an outspoken person, I object from the deepest parts of my soul.

In my opinion, deciding to ignore the academic problems male teenagers currently are facing apparently because "it all evens out later", is blatant discrimination. It doesn't "even out later" because class isn't consider here. But even if it did, it would still be discrimination.

The test is simple, reverse the genders and see how you feel about it. As a High School physics teacher I work tirelessly and with deep dedication to solve the problem of why young women shy away from math and science. And I can proudly say that, at my school at least, I have made major contributions to reversing that specific trend.

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And there are people who flat out deny this ismnotwasm May 2014 #1
I'll probably get flamed for this ... jimlup May 2014 #2
Except when they get out of school, that doesn't matter anymore n/t eridani May 2014 #4
That's just not true jimlup May 2014 #5
What you are talking about is a generational problem eridani May 2014 #6
"But I guess some of them here just care about hating men." You just lost all credibility, frankly. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #7
My credibility isn't the issue jimlup May 2014 #9
I have no problem with "asking honest questions." What I object to is the implication that feminism nomorenomore08 May 2014 #10
Nor did I say that jimlup May 2014 #11
Fair enough. I just don't like it when feminists are unfairly smeared as "man haters" - to me nomorenomore08 May 2014 #12
Except that there are cases in which it is true.... jimlup May 2014 #15
I'm glad you're doing your part to improve things. And I didn't mean to give the impression nomorenomore08 May 2014 #16
Glad we've reached a position of mutual jimlup May 2014 #17
No problem. I think your heart is in the right place. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #18
as far as the issue with school. boys are doing better today than anytime in history. seabeyond May 2014 #21
Join VDay ismnotwasm May 2014 #19
"all men are guilty of rape" bullshit. seabeyond May 2014 #20
Many feminists DO still care about the welfare of society....of BOTH genders. I'm an example. AverageJoe90 May 2014 #13
except it is mostly feminist that are discussing the outmodeled patriarchy model for our boys. seabeyond May 2014 #22
Job hunting sucks, and connections trump qualifications IronLionZion May 2014 #3
+1 nomorenomore08 May 2014 #8
Me too. nt AverageJoe90 May 2014 #14
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