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In reply to the discussion: A question for HOF [View all]

ismnotwasm

(42,549 posts)
11. Post how you feel
Wed Jul 16, 2014, 08:20 AM
Jul 2014

I have very little tolerance for idiocy or circular logic. I also refuse to get baited, although occasionally I'll join in a snark fest.

Outside of feminist groups, there is very little productive discussion about gender issues, unless it's to somehow degrade feminism, or subvert feminist issues. For instance the majority of DU'ers, not all but the majority are pro choice, but many won't acknowledge that as a feminist issue, certain members seem to want it to be part of what I can only call a 'libertarian' agenda. Sexist language can't be discussed without it being called censorship-- I'm not the language police either, but generally, although any other kind of bigoted language is not tolerated, sexist language is so embedded, discussion is impossible.

Lately I've been talking to co- workers, who say their husbands 'don't understand' the disparity in women's issues, such as health care, so I'm not sure how far off DU is from the regular population. Interestingly, my co- workers are often much more conservative than I am, but even they can see it.

On the other hand if you have a thick skin, a high tolerance for stupid people, and are difficult to bait, it can make a huge difference in a thread. Beware-- decent logic, and well thought out arguments will be ignored or you'll get labeled 'meta'. Bains posts some of the most logical arguments out there, and is constantly be labeled this or that. RedQueen will start threads about important topics, which instantly get derailed.

In short, arguing with some of these folks is like herding cats, they go off In every direction.

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A question for HOF [View all] F4lconF16 Jul 2014 OP
Yes, if you feel moved to do so BainsBane Jul 2014 #1
Thank you for your response. F4lconF16 Jul 2014 #2
I think your question is pertinent and I learned from the discussion. I especially agree ellenrr Jul 2014 #4
HoF is the leading group in the Gender and Orientation category eridani Jul 2014 #3
ya. seabeyond Jul 2014 #8
but, you know what was interesting (and good post), yesterday a member saying clicking to do jury seabeyond Jul 2014 #7
I also appreciated the person who said they learned something after serving on that "no fury" jury cyberswede Jul 2014 #15
was that one voice thread? i perused the post, seabeyond Jul 2014 #16
No, but I think one_voice said a similar thing... cyberswede Jul 2014 #17
cool. and interesting. i did not pick up on that. thanks. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #20
I definitely think so. But also, in reference to your posts, I notice them because Squinch Jul 2014 #5
i do the same, and i agree. new voice, a pleasant surprise. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #9
Glad to hear that! F4lconF16 Jul 2014 #18
yes. even a +1. but... i love hearing what others say, in their way, seabeyond Jul 2014 #6
HoF is code for outspoken feminists. sufrommich Jul 2014 #10
I'll put the patch on my unifrorm and everything! F4lconF16 Jul 2014 #19
Post how you feel ismnotwasm Jul 2014 #11
Yes, I have a feeling I will soon find myself F4lconF16 Jul 2014 #21
If you have a thick skin JustAnotherGen Jul 2014 #12
Sounds good to me! F4lconF16 Jul 2014 #22
I would appreciate all the support you can give! boston bean Jul 2014 #13
I feel the same - that others have already said better, what I want to say. CrispyQ Jul 2014 #14
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