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In reply to the discussion: I was sexually harassed for the first time today. Thoughts that have been running through my head. [View all]ismnotwasm
(42,486 posts)15. That's fucked up
Some women use "protective coloration" to avoid harassment- the ones that don't far too often get blamed for something that isn't their fault.
Interestingly, I just finished yearly competencies for my job, and one included sexual harassment, which included gender harassment, which may or may not be sexual in nature-- I was glad to see it. It also tied sexual harassment in the workplace to the 1964 civil rights act-- I was glad to see that too.
Sexual Harassment
It is unlawful to harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that persons sex. Harassment can include sexual harassment or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.
Harassment does not have to be of a sexual nature, however, and can include offensive remarks about a persons sex. For example, it is illegal to harass a woman by making offensive comments about women in general.
Both victim and the harasser can be either a woman or a man, and the victim and harasser can be the same sex.
Although the law doesnt prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).
The harasser can be the victim's supervisor, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or someone who is not an employee of the employer, such as a client or customer.
It is unlawful to harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that persons sex. Harassment can include sexual harassment or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.
Harassment does not have to be of a sexual nature, however, and can include offensive remarks about a persons sex. For example, it is illegal to harass a woman by making offensive comments about women in general.
Both victim and the harasser can be either a woman or a man, and the victim and harasser can be the same sex.
Although the law doesnt prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).
The harasser can be the victim's supervisor, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or someone who is not an employee of the employer, such as a client or customer.
http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm
Unfortunately there is little protection out on the street, in communities, in homes. No one showed have to feel guilty or ashamed or conflicted when they're experiencing what amounts to assault, and can turn into battery. No one.
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I was sexually harassed for the first time today. Thoughts that have been running through my head. [View all]
F4lconF16
Dec 2014
OP
take heart. those people are pathetic. I have gone through brutal harassment in my
roguevalley
Dec 2014
#3
I understand. I'm sure a lot of us M&F have been hassled when we most don't want to deal ..
BlueJazz
Dec 2014
#6
I'm sorry this happened to you. It was good of you to come here and make these points, also. n/t
spooky3
Dec 2014
#7
In this case, it sounded like the harasser was a stranger, or at best, an acquaintance
whathehell
Jan 2015
#26
What do you mean by "focusing on the courage inherent in surviving is helpful"?
F4lconF16
Jan 2015
#41