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KitSileya

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2. Unfortunately another example of white feminists not realizing the reality for black feminists
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 03:17 AM
Feb 2015

Jessica Williams is quite aware that should she take the job and then fail, her failure won't be her own, it will be all black women's, and all women's. Another thing she is quite aware of, but which Ester Blooms seems unaware, is that the resistance and obstacles she'll face will be 100x what a white woman would face. But Bloom disregards that, and diagnoses Williams over the internet with 'impostor syndrome'. Because Bloom refuses to realize that a 25.year old black woman won't be given a grace period, won't be allowed to stumble, won't be allowed to feel her way forward and learn on the job - and because she is a young black woman she is not allowed to be aware of that, and say no to a job that would be incredibly hard even for a 40-something white comedienne with a long established career, such as Tina Fey, or Amy Pohler. Williams has a much better grasp of her reality than Bloom ever will, and telling her that she doesn't is Privilege 101 material.

TL;DR If Jessica Williams says she isn't ready for the job, we should listen, and hear what she says instead of speaking over her.

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And... sheshe2 Feb 2015 #1
Unfortunately another example of white feminists not realizing the reality for black feminists KitSileya Feb 2015 #2
thumbs up. nt seabeyond Feb 2015 #5
Brava! JustAnotherGen Feb 2015 #19
I don't know who is taking that job but I wish them well rpannier Feb 2015 #3
great response. brain blank? cause now i have to look up who williams is. seabeyond Feb 2015 #4
Jessica is a treasure. NuclearDem Feb 2015 #6
i went in to check out who she is. i am sure she is right. she is just starting up. seabeyond Feb 2015 #7
Jessica Williams is my favorite correspondant A Little Weird Feb 2015 #8
"lean the fuck away from me" is great! Jessica has a wonderful future, mountain grammy Feb 2015 #9
It would be interesting to hear why she doesn't think she's ready. jeff47 Feb 2015 #10
she feels she is under-qualified and not right for the role. seabeyond Feb 2015 #13
Yes, I'm wondering what specifically makes her feel that she is under-qualified. jeff47 Feb 2015 #14
I'm going to guess that the fact that her career is 3 years old, KitSileya Feb 2015 #20
To her credit, Ester Bloom seems to have realized how she messed up, and apologized credibly. Sheldon Cooper Feb 2015 #11
kudos to her. thank you for posting. right on. a lesson for all of us, both directions. nt seabeyond Feb 2015 #12
Learning to actually listen to people, Sheldon Cooper Feb 2015 #15
i had that conversation with myself just this morning while talking to father. seabeyond Feb 2015 #16
thsnks for posting the update/reply. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #17
Good that she apologized. KitSileya Feb 2015 #21
What is this "lean in" thing? I haven't heard it before. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #18
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