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Sheldon Cooper

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11. To her credit, Ester Bloom seems to have realized how she messed up, and apologized credibly.
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 11:15 AM
Feb 2015
ETA: I apologize for being insensitive here. I should have underlined that of course the choice belongs only to Williams. If she had said, “I don’t want the job,” I would have left it there. Her saying “I’m not qualified” is what intrigued me, especially since I’ve read so much about Impostor Syndrome lately and that’s so often the language women use.

Again, I want to emphasize that I have enormous respect for Williams. I think she’s talented and funny and great. That said, Williams is not accountable to either old white tastemakers or, as the also talented and funny Wyatt Cenac pointed out, to young opinionated ones like me. The decision is entirely hers.


ETA II (2/18): I wrote that first apology early on, before I had the chance to read Jessica Williams’ full Tweeted response, and then my feed became overwhelming & impossible to sort through, especially with all the curse words, so I missed a lot of what came next. But now that I’m more caught up, I wanted to state officially and for the record, as I have on Twitter, that I was wrong. I was offensive and presumptuous; I messed up, and I’m sorry. Williams should not have had to deal with this shit: my calling her a “victim” of anything, my acting like I know better and could diagnose her with anything, all of it. Ugh. I’m leaving the post up, because at this point my stupid blog entry is News, and may it live in infamy. But I apologize, again. I am listening to folks and trying to learn, and I will try my hardest to be more damn careful & thoughtful in the future.

http://thebillfold.com/2015/02/on-the-daily-shows-jessica-williams-the-latest-high-profile-victim-of-impostor-syndrome/


I think Jessica Williams' response was great, by the way.

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And... sheshe2 Feb 2015 #1
Unfortunately another example of white feminists not realizing the reality for black feminists KitSileya Feb 2015 #2
thumbs up. nt seabeyond Feb 2015 #5
Brava! JustAnotherGen Feb 2015 #19
I don't know who is taking that job but I wish them well rpannier Feb 2015 #3
great response. brain blank? cause now i have to look up who williams is. seabeyond Feb 2015 #4
Jessica is a treasure. NuclearDem Feb 2015 #6
i went in to check out who she is. i am sure she is right. she is just starting up. seabeyond Feb 2015 #7
Jessica Williams is my favorite correspondant A Little Weird Feb 2015 #8
"lean the fuck away from me" is great! Jessica has a wonderful future, mountain grammy Feb 2015 #9
It would be interesting to hear why she doesn't think she's ready. jeff47 Feb 2015 #10
she feels she is under-qualified and not right for the role. seabeyond Feb 2015 #13
Yes, I'm wondering what specifically makes her feel that she is under-qualified. jeff47 Feb 2015 #14
I'm going to guess that the fact that her career is 3 years old, KitSileya Feb 2015 #20
To her credit, Ester Bloom seems to have realized how she messed up, and apologized credibly. Sheldon Cooper Feb 2015 #11
kudos to her. thank you for posting. right on. a lesson for all of us, both directions. nt seabeyond Feb 2015 #12
Learning to actually listen to people, Sheldon Cooper Feb 2015 #15
i had that conversation with myself just this morning while talking to father. seabeyond Feb 2015 #16
thsnks for posting the update/reply. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #17
Good that she apologized. KitSileya Feb 2015 #21
What is this "lean in" thing? I haven't heard it before. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #18
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