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JustAnotherGen

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12. I was messaging with another member today
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 02:31 PM
Apr 2015

He's recently married, gay, lives in a square state. He and his husband could lose their home, their jobs, etc. etc. due to the way they are born.


Here's how I look at it.

I'm 'rich'. I'm not wealthy (a billonaire) and I'm definately not upper middle class.

Tomorrow - I could lose it all. I could be homeless, on the streets, with my husband (he's white I'm black of a mixed variety).

Or - he could sell that 'one' piece of work that puts us in the billionaire class.

We could drop down to comfortably middle class.




But rich or poor - I'm still going to be a black woman. I'm still going to have experienced America in a specific way.

Now I promise - on my father's grave - I promise -

I will never look at another American who is struggling financially, health wise, not able to make ends meet and say - They don't matter.
I promise to always demand that we give people solid pay and health benefits.
I promise to keep on demanding we expand social security (our boomers are going to be a very large class of people we need to take care of because it's the right thing to do).
I promise to continue to push for tax increases - that would impact my bottom line. Because my community kitchen work with the food bank only reaches people in my back yard and besides - that's a band aid not a solution.


But I know I can do alll of those things -make ALL of those promises -

And as a woman - specifically a black woman - know that I will be paid less unless I push the offer to the point of having it taken off the table.

I still have to worry about that one police officer who thinks my nephews or brother or cousins or one uncle still alive (he's 76) is easy prey.

I still had to deal with a racially prejudice realtor who kept pushing my husband and me to certain communities. We fired her and hired one of his friends. And Kevin listened to us. He's white -and he 'got it'.

That's just a few things - but those things are still there.

Wealthy, rich, middle class, working poor, abject poverty - there are certain things I have in common with a black woman who grew up in rural Mississippi with few opportunities and who struggles day to day -

That I don't have in common with my own husband.

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This F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #1
thank you. and to be clear. i used fuck instead of fug, cause a juror said they would hide me, if seabeyond Apr 2015 #2
Bahaha did they really? F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #4
yes i am. screwed either way, that is. fug it. seabeyond Apr 2015 #5
Love the graphic GeoWilliam750 May 2015 #29
lol lol geo. all over the place. ah ha.... seabeyond May 2015 #30
Well. Obama said to the toadys at the WHCD, 'Bucket.' He didn't mean a mop and bucket, either... n/t freshwest Apr 2015 #20
Love this ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #3
You say it has to happen before economic justice... F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #6
We are human first ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #7
we are already on an unlevel economic playing field. we cannot start equality on an unlevel field. seabeyond Apr 2015 #8
I don't disagree with any of that. F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #9
Interesting, and very well written--thank you (I like long posts when they are good) ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #10
I was messaging with another member today JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #12
excellent post. nt seabeyond Apr 2015 #13
Beautiful. n/t freshwest Apr 2015 #25
Our system seems based on divide and conquer GeoWilliam750 May 2015 #31
Because the highly touted economics first crowd of old, were about protecting white males. freshwest Apr 2015 #21
I never answer you? F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #22
I have edited it a lot, so kindly take a look at the finished work to reply. TIA. n/t freshwest Apr 2015 #23
Will do. nt F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #24
I will not be able to get to this until at least tomorrow night F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #27
My advice would be not to let the sideshow on DU BainsBane Apr 2015 #11
yes. sanders needs to be an advocate to black, women and gays. obama was good with our issues, seabeyond Apr 2015 #14
Do you know that he hasn't? BainsBane Apr 2015 #15
i know he absolutely supports us all, and his vote is there. no.... i have not heard him the seabeyond Apr 2015 #16
He seems very pro-woman, as well as--100% rating from NARAL ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #17
his vote is absolutely there. i want more. clinton promises more. our women, blacks and gays seabeyond Apr 2015 #18
Exactly ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #19
Here's an OP that I posted. To make it faster for you, here it is: freshwest Apr 2015 #26
This is very cool ismnotwasm May 2015 #28
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