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3. My perspective on "hero" casts a wider net than many may first agree with.
Fri Sep 29, 2023, 03:14 PM
Sep 2023

I do acknowledge folks like Ed Silk: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_A._Silk or Bruce Crandall: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bruce_P._Crandall as heroes and don't want their courageous acts minimized.

My perspective is that many folks make a decision in a day or a moment that implies a commitment and don't or can't make it happen. As described in more than one dictionary, a hero is someone admired for outstanding achievements or noble qualities. IMO, victims of sexual abuse often experience continued abuse when good people standby and do nothing.

Trust me, 15 isn't an age where things are smooth. I suspect much worse from those leaving abusive situations. Choices like Linda's aren't about an incredible sacrifice or risk of likely death. Those acts are truly heroic. A decision and the years of subsequent dedication to a choice made is a daily sacrifice of time and a cost in opportunities, some lasting years, others for life.

As JFK expressed 62 years ago, "we need a nation of citizens who regard the preservation of freedom as a basic purpose of their daily life and who are willing to consciously work and sacrifice for that freedom. The cause of liberty, the cause of America, cannot succeed with any lesser effort." Today, those in need may be the people of a nation on the Black Sea thousands of miles away or a single child next door.

OTOH, sword boat Captain isn't exactly low risk either. YMMV

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