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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
36. I appreciate your post and have read it carefully.
Thu Dec 11, 2014, 09:42 AM
Dec 2014

I had previously enjoyed discussion with you and never felt that they became uncivil or damaging. We disagreed and debated with some passion. If it became overly personal, then I was not fully aware of that. I don't even recall what the Sagan thread was.

OTOH, I strongly object to be called out, attacked and mocked in conversations that I am not a part of. I find this particularly offensive when it occurs not only in a place that I am not participating but in a place where I can not defend myself.

Your promise to refrain from doing that is appreciated. I am not aware of ever having said a word about you that was not said to you, but if I have, I apologize and will not do it in the future.

I am quite sure that we agree on much more than we disagree on. I am also very much in support of your passion and most of your goals.

As you know, I have a trigger point when it comes to what I consider religious intolerance or bigotry. I will push back when I see that, but other than that I think I am pretty easy.

You have written some very passionate pieces about wanting to be allowed to be what you say you are. You have some strong views about certain words and a particularly strong position about those who chose the term agnostic as a stand alone descriptor.

I would ask that you consider that others feel much the same as you do when it comes to being permitted to be who they say they are. Their passion may be as strong as yours and their desire not to be defined as passionate.

In terms of this room, I honestly do not think you belong here and I am not sure what your point is. Many of your views are distinctly anti-religious. Whether you think you have technically broken any rules or not, your presence here violates the spirit of this safe haven.

If you want to have debates about religion, go to the religion room. If you want some pats on the back and support for your atheism, go to the a/a room. However, neither of those things are what you should come here for.

Don't take it personally. Just think about it.

And please stick to your promise not to attack me. If you feel that I have crossed the line with you, just let me know.

Thanks.

"Militant" [View all] okasha Dec 2014 OP
Brava! rug Dec 2014 #1
That, too. okasha Dec 2014 #3
I had to look that up. rug Dec 2014 #5
Really? LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #12
You can not have it both ways. TM99 Dec 2014 #15
What was inappropriate about my manner? Honestly I don't see it LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #17
Really? cbayer Dec 2014 #18
Good post. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #2
Great! okasha Dec 2014 #6
No i am a marshmallow. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #8
"Moving water wears away stone." Lao Tse okasha Dec 2014 #9
And if you told someone that you consider a word a slur against you LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #14
And that is how you use the adjective "militant" kentauros Dec 2014 #4
Please go ahead and post it. okasha Dec 2014 #7
Well, I may have to rewrite it a bit, kentauros Dec 2014 #10
I am Asexual LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #13
"Religionista" is a made-up word, kentauros Dec 2014 #20
The rest of the world is mostly theist LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #21
Okay, now you've confused me. kentauros Dec 2014 #22
I am giving you an example of a word LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #23
We're not going to agree, kentauros Dec 2014 #24
Very well LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #25
Yes... LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #11
Let's start at the beginning okasha Dec 2014 #26
Okay LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #27
You know, I think you are probably a nice person IRL. cbayer Dec 2014 #28
Cbayer (long post) LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #32
I appreciate your post and have read it carefully. cbayer Dec 2014 #36
Alright LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #38
I think you can PM the hosts with your suggestions. cbayer Dec 2014 #39
Here's some militant Christians. stone space Dec 2014 #29
Militantly praying. okasha Dec 2014 #30
They aren't the only militants in the Berrigan family. Check out Frida's profile: stone space Dec 2014 #34
... LostOne4Ever Dec 2014 #33
What if atheists were defined by their actions? stone space Dec 2014 #40
These are the people I was raised by and with. cbayer Dec 2014 #37
That's understandable - being neighborly means avoiding using terms that offend others el_bryanto Dec 2014 #41
Militant atheist here. stone space Dec 2014 #16
Haven't you been instructed? okasha Dec 2014 #31
I should have listened to the National Review. stone space Dec 2014 #35
You can be whatever you choose to be and you do it well. cbayer Dec 2014 #19
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