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Elder-caregivers

CountAllVotes

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14. Its pretty sad

Reply to mahina (Reply #3)

Thu Feb 10, 2022, 06:21 PM

Feb 2022

I have one tRUMPer sibling. Everyone else is dead. I'd never ask this person for anything! Never!

Husband is one of 10 children. The only one alive is in Ireland and she doesn't seem to care to get involved.'

Sad situation at best!

You'd think with all those relatives someone would help but they are a selfish lot I've learned over the years.

It all came down in the end. How many priests showed up for so-and-so's funeral. HOW MANY is how the value of a human being is all that seemed to matter. Disgraceful!

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] CountAllVotes Feb 2022 OP

PM me sister Glamrock Feb 2022 #1

I found this link from Sacramento County: Haggard Celine Feb 2022 #2

We have two forms of insurance CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #13

I wish I could do more. Haggard Celine Feb 2022 #15

Thank you so much CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #19

You might not have the time for it; Haggard Celine Feb 2022 #21

I've tried CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #22

Oh man. Thank you for piping up. I don't have any expertise mahina Feb 2022 #3

Its pretty sad CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #14

I can't think of any "liability" for you if your husband falls while you run a quick errand More_Cowbell Feb 2022 #4

otherwise August 5, 1964 -- May 7, 1975 CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #12

Anecdotal info here. If you spend down your liquid assets caring for your husband, you could alwaysinasnit Feb 2022 #5

You also want to think about everything you do More_Cowbell Feb 2022 #6

True, the spending down I referred to was the wife's expenditures for her husband's care. She alwaysinasnit Feb 2022 #7

Have you contacted your council on aging? SheltieLover Feb 2022 #8

That's a good idea. mahina Feb 2022 #16

They are great! SheltieLover Feb 2022 #17

Also your local senior center is a great source of info & resources! SheltieLover Feb 2022 #18

The state of California pays an aquaintance of mine to care for her disabled child at home Sedona Feb 2022 #9

Try this Sedona Feb 2022 #10

I can't answer any of your questions, I'm sorry. But I can give you a hug ms liberty Feb 2022 #11

Thank you CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #20

This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #23

I think he will qualify for a nursing home...even if you still live in your own home. Trueblue Texan Feb 2022 #24

Thank you CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #25

He got out of the hospital only to lose his keys and take a bad fall CountAllVotes Feb 2022 #26