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Elder-caregivers

politicat

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4. I have her POA, I'm the Trustee, the designated responsible party.

Reply to uppityperson (Reply #1)

Thu Jun 19, 2014, 09:36 AM

Jun 2014

As to why... I don't know. My mom's in the picture and their relationship is fine... But I'm considered the clever one. That might be it, or that teenage conflicts cut a lot of scars that last.

Also, my mother lives three states further on, and my grandmother absolutely hates it there. That may have something to do with it.

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I could use some feedback on a delicate situation. [View all] politicat Jun 2014 OP

What a situation for both of you. Does someone have POA or such legal rights about her? uppityperson Jun 2014 #1

I have her POA, I'm the Trustee, the designated responsible party. politicat Jun 2014 #4

There are different kinds of POA's. There's a medical power of attorney pnwmom Jun 2014 #7

Heh. I have the complete, durable POA, I'm the trustee, executor, and the admin. politicat Jun 2014 #9

She's very lucky to have you. pnwmom Jun 2014 #10

It is hard, but at some point you have to simply take over. robinlynne Aug 2014 #14

she is your grandmother? Alameda Jun 2014 #2

I am it. Trustee, POA, responsible party. politicat Jun 2014 #5

Yikes, that is a worrisome situation, for sure. Habibi Jun 2014 #3

Tell her that Bruce is getting older and that he gets confused sometimes and might forget to call. mia Jun 2014 #6

I don't think blocking the phone number is a bad idea, given the circumstances. pnwmom Jun 2014 #8

Thanks. politicat Jun 2014 #11

Good. The fact that he's retreated now that you've taken over pnwmom Jun 2014 #12

I'm coming to this thread a bit late alcina Jul 2014 #13

I don't know what to say Aerows Oct 2014 #15