Elder-caregivers

My mother is involved, but my grandmother designated me.

At this point, I have her financials locked down -- he'll never get another cent. I'm not terribly worried he might come take her away (her assisted living knows she has a limited number of people allowed to take her, and I'm there all the time). Physically, financially -- she's secure. It's just the emotional side.

At least she's stayed true to form -- she has always, always had awful taste in men. (My grandfather was the exception in that he was a good guy, but they were not good together at all, so I think that fits the awful parameter.)