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In reply to the discussion: Coping with Helping [View all]

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
4. Agreed.
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 01:13 AM
Oct 2015

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]I had to apply for assistance some years ago while I was waiting for Social Security Disability to be approved, and the attitude of the person behind the counter was absolutely demeaning. She looked at me and said, "You look able to find a job."

She had no idea what was going on or why I would be considered disabled for several years, but she was automatically disdainful - like I hadn't been through a battery of medical tests already to prove my eligibility. I was angry for a long time, which didn't help my condition at all.

Anyone who needs to deal with these petty, power-tripping types needs a thick skin, and it's disgusting.

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Coping with Helping [View all] madamesilverspurs Oct 2015 OP
K&R! marym625 Oct 2015 #1
I have always wondered how much of the budgets of the safety net programs Half-Century Man Oct 2015 #2
+10000 marym625 Oct 2015 #3
Agreed. silverweb Oct 2015 #4
if you were not there she would not have a job. Downwinder Oct 2015 #6
Burnout's definitely a possibility. silverweb Oct 2015 #7
It probably wouldn't have helped. Downwinder Oct 2015 #9
Anger can be a gift, as the saying goes. silverweb Oct 2015 #10
it could be burn out w0nderer Oct 2015 #12
I have a cousin Worried senior Oct 2015 #16
Lack of empathy is endemic, it seems. silverweb Oct 2015 #17
Even more is eaten up by the privatization that now have the contracts to run the programs. Live and Learn Oct 2015 #5
Yes. silverweb Oct 2015 #8
well it adds w0nderer Oct 2015 #13
Cake! silverweb Oct 2015 #18
Fantastic post w0nderer Oct 2015 #11
What a f'd up system we have! silverweb Oct 2015 #14
This is why i asked for the group w0nderer Oct 2015 #15
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