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Worried senior

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16. I have a cousin
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 11:11 AM
Oct 2015

with many medical issues but she doesn't look too bad.

She applied for disability and after getting a lawyer and a few years she was finally approved. The judge was very disgusted with the system that she had been put thru the wringer for so long.

She applied for assistance which in this state if you didn't have children was almost impossible to get, she asked the caseworker how they expected people to live without help and the answer was "we don't". Makes you wonder how they would handle things if they were in the same situation.

She finally got SS but they doled out the money like it was coming out of their pockets, my husband got disability and luckily we weren't treated this way but that was back in the 80's and even under Reagan they were more respectable.

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Coping with Helping [View all] madamesilverspurs Oct 2015 OP
K&R! marym625 Oct 2015 #1
I have always wondered how much of the budgets of the safety net programs Half-Century Man Oct 2015 #2
+10000 marym625 Oct 2015 #3
Agreed. silverweb Oct 2015 #4
if you were not there she would not have a job. Downwinder Oct 2015 #6
Burnout's definitely a possibility. silverweb Oct 2015 #7
It probably wouldn't have helped. Downwinder Oct 2015 #9
Anger can be a gift, as the saying goes. silverweb Oct 2015 #10
it could be burn out w0nderer Oct 2015 #12
I have a cousin Worried senior Oct 2015 #16
Lack of empathy is endemic, it seems. silverweb Oct 2015 #17
Even more is eaten up by the privatization that now have the contracts to run the programs. Live and Learn Oct 2015 #5
Yes. silverweb Oct 2015 #8
well it adds w0nderer Oct 2015 #13
Cake! silverweb Oct 2015 #18
Fantastic post w0nderer Oct 2015 #11
What a f'd up system we have! silverweb Oct 2015 #14
This is why i asked for the group w0nderer Oct 2015 #15
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