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In reply to the discussion: Coping with Helping [View all]

w0nderer

(1,937 posts)
11. Fantastic post
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 03:33 PM
Oct 2015

And so much yes on 'social assistants' (the staff)

look i understand they have a nice college degree

now tell me that a snip of 22 years old who recoils at the smell of sweat
has been
raped (i haven't)
in a fight with multiple armed people (i have)
been on the street because you lost your roof (i have)
gone hungry for multiple days unless dieting

sorry...when they can't walk it, they shouldn't talk it, and the mere 'i can imagine' is insulting


you can imagine 4 broken bones and going to work cause it's all you can afford?
you can imagine lifting merchandise with torn muscles? without pain killer cause it's painkiller or food

Isn't it sad that we have to 'bow and scrape and beg' to 'social services' sometimes more than poor people had to do to 'patron/nobles' in the old days


my best friend lost half his housing support cause he got a $1 a day increase in pay
housing support was $80 increase in pay $27 or so, but he was border line on the 'rules'
so they cancelled his housing support, he lost the apartment


fortunately at the time i was living where i could let him take a room
sad though, they are supposed to help but often follow the rules to the point of making it harder

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Coping with Helping [View all] madamesilverspurs Oct 2015 OP
K&R! marym625 Oct 2015 #1
I have always wondered how much of the budgets of the safety net programs Half-Century Man Oct 2015 #2
+10000 marym625 Oct 2015 #3
Agreed. silverweb Oct 2015 #4
if you were not there she would not have a job. Downwinder Oct 2015 #6
Burnout's definitely a possibility. silverweb Oct 2015 #7
It probably wouldn't have helped. Downwinder Oct 2015 #9
Anger can be a gift, as the saying goes. silverweb Oct 2015 #10
it could be burn out w0nderer Oct 2015 #12
I have a cousin Worried senior Oct 2015 #16
Lack of empathy is endemic, it seems. silverweb Oct 2015 #17
Even more is eaten up by the privatization that now have the contracts to run the programs. Live and Learn Oct 2015 #5
Yes. silverweb Oct 2015 #8
well it adds w0nderer Oct 2015 #13
Cake! silverweb Oct 2015 #18
Fantastic post w0nderer Oct 2015 #11
What a f'd up system we have! silverweb Oct 2015 #14
This is why i asked for the group w0nderer Oct 2015 #15
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