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End of Life Issues

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The_jackalope

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Thu Aug 24, 2017, 08:30 PM Aug 2017

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Today Mrs. Jackalope spoke with her home nurse and palliative care doctor, and initiated a request for what's known in Canada as MAiD: Medical Assistance in Dying. She meets all the criteria, and it will happen within a couple of weeks.

She said last night that she's done, the suffering is now too deep to endure any more, with nothing to look forward to except raw survival - life without living. Oddly enough, the one aspect of suffering that is not an issue for her is the one people fear most - pain. Everything else sucks, though.

Neither she nor I are that attached to life, it would appear. As always I completely support her wishes, and am in awe of her courage and clarity. Thank God we live in 21st century Canada, with access to legal medical marijuana and legal medical suicide.

I love her so much.
The Jackalope

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Thinking of you and Mrs Jackalope tonight voteearlyvoteoften Aug 2017 #1
It is difficult to get the necessary two doctors to approve BigmanPigman Aug 2017 #2
I find it ironic (hypocritical) that religious people drmeow Aug 2017 #6
Exactly. If we were to look at it in the most... 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #35
Sending you both kind thoughts and energy MLAA Aug 2017 #3
I'm so sorry. LiberalLoner Aug 2017 #4
We have something similar in Oregon.. Permanut Aug 2017 #5
Sending both of you peaceful thoughts. sinkingfeeling Aug 2017 #7
Just this: volstork Aug 2017 #8
I'm so sorry for you CanonRay Aug 2017 #9
You are both more braver than I ever could be! Find your strength, show your love kimbutgar Aug 2017 #10
We never know how much courage we have until we're called upon. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #12
Amen Brother!! kimbutgar Aug 2017 #22
You both are so brave. AllyCat Aug 2017 #11
oh, barbtries Aug 2017 #13
My sympathy. plimsoll Aug 2017 #14
That's plenty. Thank you, and everyone else. nt The_jackalope Aug 2017 #15
Safe home to Mrs. Jackalope. MontanaMama Aug 2017 #16
My heart is with you both. fierywoman Aug 2017 #17
She's lucky to have you... EarnestPutz Aug 2017 #18
Welcome to DU, EarnestPutz. calimary Aug 2017 #21
safe passage to mrs j. mopinko Aug 2017 #19
Thank you for letting us know, The_jackalope. calimary Aug 2017 #20
My heart hurts for you both. raven mad Aug 2017 #23
Wishing you continued peace AwakeAtLast Aug 2017 #24
Dear Jackalope Lilma Aug 2017 #25
Prayers and blessings cilla4progress Aug 2017 #26
Three years before she died, I had the last lucid talk with my mother Warpy Aug 2017 #27
I am in awe... 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #28
Mrs. Scrutinizer died on March 1 of this year central scrutinizer Aug 2017 #29
This is the cost of loving someone worth missing. 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #33
"New normal" is a very good way to describe it. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #34
My sympathy. As well prayers for continued courage, strength and being surrounded in love. Lyricalinklines Aug 2017 #30
I am sending...... MFM008 Aug 2017 #31
Thank you all for your support. She will definitely use this option. Here's how I know. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #32
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