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ShazzieB

(18,317 posts)
14. The "I've got mine, fuck you" attitude isn't limited to the extremely wealthy, unfortunately.
Sat Apr 13, 2024, 02:59 PM
Apr 2024

It is alive and well among the moderately wealthy and the upper middle class, and it can often be found at even lower levels than that.

For example, when Habitat for Humanity wanted to build homes in my town, who objected? Middle class and upper middle class folks who lived in the neighborhood where Habitat wanted to build, that's who. Property values are EVERYTHING around here, and people are suspicious of anything they fear might possibly affect theirs, regardless of who would be helped or how badly they may need that help. I was horrified to see how strenuously people objected to allowing Habitat to build in their nice, but definitely not particularly upscale neighborhood. It was textbook NIMBY.

The uber wealthy would probably fight something like that, too, but they are insulated from this kind of thing. No one is going to try to build a Habitat house in their neighborhoods, because no one except them can afford to buy land there. Those in the socioeconomic strata that are comfortably off, but without a lot to spare, are the ones affected by this kind of thing, and they will fight it tooth and nail.

A big part of the problem is that many people see helping the needy as a zero sum game and fear that any help given to others will mean something taken away from them. These are the people who keep voting in Republicans year after year, because they know that's the party that isn't going to try to help anybody. It doesn't occur to them that Republicans are also going to do things that will be bad for them.

In case you're wondering, Habitat did eventually build some homes here, not in the neighborhood where they initially tried, but another one where, I assume, the homeowners didn't object as much.

Situations like this shouldn't happen in a country as wealthy as ours. Elessar Zappa Apr 2024 #1
You're right, of course... slightlv Apr 2024 #8
totally agree gopiscrap Apr 2024 #9
St. Ronnie Raygun also eliminated free college education in California OMGWTF Apr 2024 #22
It has been nearly 50 years since Reagan was governor MichMan Apr 2024 #29
Republicans were in charge in California NanaCat Apr 2024 #32
No, but it doesn't hurt to recognize failures. How can we improve without that? I'm pretty sure we haven't fully done KPN Apr 2024 #37
Billionaires want for nothing. Mr. Evil Apr 2024 #11
The "I've got mine, fuck you" attitude isn't limited to the extremely wealthy, unfortunately. ShazzieB Apr 2024 #14
You're so right. Mr. Evil Apr 2024 #21
It's about sharing. Something we learn at three. Joinfortmill Apr 2024 #26
Why point to Bezos/Gates and not Musk, Ellison, Kochs, Yass, Mars, Crowe, Uihleins..Paulson, lostnfound Apr 2024 #24
100% We must keep fighting for the Nordic Model here in the USA. OrlandoDem2 Apr 2024 #13
Yes, especially healthcare and affordable housing. Elessar Zappa Apr 2024 #16
Exactly. OldBaldy1701E Apr 2024 #18
While the country might be rich when you look at GDP and other large measures Warpy Apr 2024 #20
Kicked and recommended Uncle Joe Apr 2024 #2
YW Uncle Joe. Powerful stuff..... Diamond_Dog Apr 2024 #6
Kick dalton99a Apr 2024 #3
We are the richest country in the history of the world. Irish_Dem Apr 2024 #4
Yes, and our maternal death rates are horrifying Easterncedar Apr 2024 #27
K&R Docreed2003 Apr 2024 #5
My partner and I are both on "Medi-CAL" CA's medicaid... FirstLight Apr 2024 #7
And you have it way better NanaCat Apr 2024 #34
Weeping irisblue Apr 2024 #10
The fucking richest country in the world does this!!! I am beyond niyad Apr 2024 #12
K & R with... JoeOtterbein Apr 2024 #15
Yes senseandsensibility Apr 2024 #19
It isn't even a matter of "should we share" IbogaProject Apr 2024 #17
... Faux pas Apr 2024 #23
Thank you for all you do. Society can do so Joinfortmill Apr 2024 #25
Appalachian Health Care Pop-ups Delarage Apr 2024 #28
I have volunteered for Remote Area Medical markodochartaigh Apr 2024 #36
This is just the beginning of the end. Hope22 Apr 2024 #30
DURec leftstreet Apr 2024 #31
We have a safety net Puppyjive Apr 2024 #33
Yes and if he can afford an attorney and can find free everything for year while he waits.... Hope22 Apr 2024 #35
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