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In reply to the discussion: Wanted: Therapists from DU. Daughter heading off to school. [View all]TBF
(34,822 posts)39. My oldest just graduated from college -
your role just changes. Call her (not every hour), just be supportive. The good part is you don't have to be on top of everything anymore. You don't have to be checking her grades, making sure you know who her friends are, etc. You'll still worry, but the hard work is done. I still have a younger child to worry over, but for you reconnect with friends, if you don't have a pet now is a good time It's going to be ok and she'll be back before you know it (ie all breaks - and ours is actually moving home for awhile to job hunt)
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What a great story. And I agree with the last paragraph especially. Hence my
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2024
#19
Hopefully, she focuses on her studies and not on boyfriends. The latter can wait.
PeaceWave
Aug 2024
#21
You will have an opportunity to redefine your relationship with her as adults!
SheltieLover
Aug 2024
#27
Have a rescue dog (pandemic rescue) and a 17 year old. Thanks for the support!
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2024
#47