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wishstar

(5,803 posts)
6. Close friend/neighbor in Asheville died
Tue Oct 22, 2024, 06:27 AM
Oct 2024

My dearest friend for over 40 years and co-worker died over a week ago but in Myrtle Beach after struggling with stress and physical difficulty of carrying buckets of water for a week in Asheville before going with a neighbor down to the coast to wait out restoration of power and water here. My friend had excruciating back pain and died from apparent heart attack in SC
after getting cortisone shots and strong pain meds. My friend had previously been so healthy that they did’nt even have a doctor in 40 years in Asheville and took no meds ever before. The losses here in WNC and elsewhere are staggering and incomprehensible both loss of life and health plus loss of our basic support structure such as stores, banks and roads and bridges gone. Our parks and greenways devastated or inaccessible right now. Myself and spouse personally dealing with a stroke and broken leg plus water damage in house requiring repairs. We still have no running water except murky trickle for flushing I have to lug up from basement but at least not having to drive to World Centrals tanker truck. No TV, landline or internet yet on Oct 22 and struggling to use smartphone for all communications including this response to excellent post where it’s taking me 10 times longer to type a message than before . Only good thing is spouse has lost 15 pounds and I’ve lost 7 since ordeal began and we have encountered so many angels to help and kind neighbors. So much compassion amidst our shared trauma and desperation. Other positive is our early voting sites close by up and running well!!!!

very sorry for all you and your community is going through Skittles Oct 2024 #1
The human trauma of a natural disaster competes for media coverage with a 78-year-old felonious rapist's....... jaxexpat Oct 2024 #2
. BoRaGard Oct 2024 #3
But the RW is pushing this narrative of "thousands missing; Harris's fault" oldsoftie Oct 2024 #4
They can go straight to hell Dem4life1234 Oct 2024 #17
Heartbreaking Martin Eden Oct 2024 #5
Close friend/neighbor in Asheville died wishstar Oct 2024 #6
Thank you for responding G_j Oct 2024 #12
Thank you so much for this vivid first-hand account Pinback Oct 2024 #7
Thank you for donating to Beloved Asheville G_j Oct 2024 #13
Thanks for that link, Pinback. calimary Oct 2024 #25
Detailed and well written malaise Oct 2024 #8
I just knew the coverage was lacking.... Puppyjive Oct 2024 #9
A lot of... 2naSalit Oct 2024 #10
This is so important, well written, and true NewHendoLib Oct 2024 #11
Thank you for posting - we must help them Alice Kramden Oct 2024 #14
Truly unimaginable and heartbreaking. Fla Dem Oct 2024 #15
I am astounded that the media isn't covering this as they should Dem4life1234 Oct 2024 #16
They grossly under coated Katrina's death toll. live love laugh Oct 2024 #20
Kicked&Recommended. Cherrycheeks Oct 2024 #18
This happened to Bolivar Island - Hurricane Ike TBF Oct 2024 #19
I am so sorry for your and your greater community's immense trauma and devastating losses. Clouds Passing Oct 2024 #21
Thank you for posting this painful yet needed reminder of the aftermath of Helene ... cliffside Oct 2024 #22
I have searched every day for more information about the hurricane Helene and Milton. I am shocked at how little ShazamIam Oct 2024 #23
OP, you say a friend of yours wrote that? soandso Oct 2024 #24
Indeed G_j Oct 2024 #28
I can imagine that many stories have not yet been told DFW Oct 2024 #26
europe Kali999 Oct 2024 #27
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