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16. Iam so so sorry for your great loss

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Wed Oct 30, 2024, 05:03 AM

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My husband collapsed and died tonight. [View all] 1monster Oct 2024 OP

Deepest condolences BWdem4life Oct 2024 #1

With You Roy Rolling Oct 2024 #2

My deepest condolences. niyad Oct 2024 #3

I am so sorry. TSExile Oct 2024 #4

Really feel sad for your loss duncang Oct 2024 #5

Wrapping virtual arms around you cilla4progress Oct 2024 #6

what a cruel disease Skittles Oct 2024 #7

Thak you so much for this. jaxexpat Oct 2024 #8

I am so sorry for your loss. Silver Gaia Oct 2024 #9

im so sorry BlueWaveNeverEnd Oct 2024 #10

Our deepest condolences flying-skeleton Oct 2024 #11

Deepest Condolences to you and your family. pazzyanne Oct 2024 #12

Nine years ago I went through a much similar night tavernier Oct 2024 #13

That is platinum advice right there. All of it. We don't talk about death nearly enough. Maru Kitteh Oct 2024 #142

Thanks. My widowed lady pals surrounded me immediately tavernier Oct 2024 #161

You don't know how you feel... BigmanPigman Oct 2024 #14

Holding you, your son, and your stepson in the light. Earthrise Oct 2024 #15

Iam so so sorry for your great loss irisblue Oct 2024 #16

My love and thoughts to you. I am so sorry. Doodley Oct 2024 #17

Hugs to you mercuryblues Oct 2024 #18

I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family. HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #19

Condolences... MiHale Oct 2024 #20

Saddening. B.See Oct 2024 #21

My profound sympathies to you and your family. no_hypocrisy Oct 2024 #22

I'm so sorry. barbtries Oct 2024 #23

I am so sorry UpInArms Oct 2024 #24

So sorry. I lost my husband in 2021, still miss him so much. TommieMommy Oct 2024 #25

Peace and comfort to you. This has to be so difficult. Tanuki Oct 2024 #26

So sorry. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 2024 #27

Sorry for your loss. Emile Oct 2024 #28

My condolences from me and SO Tetrachloride Oct 2024 #29

my heart goes out to you. my deepest sympathies. somaticexperiencing Oct 2024 #30

Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved. I sincerely hope that you're surrounded by the love & caring of your The_REAL_Ecumenist Oct 2024 #31

I wish you peace with the knowledge that your care for your husband over the years made a tremendous difference... hlthe2b Oct 2024 #32

I wish you and your son Strength and Courage in the days ahead. ZZenith Oct 2024 #33

I am mgardener Oct 2024 #34

We hear you, we're listening, keep talking through it as much as you need or want to. Think. Again. Oct 2024 #35

Heartfelt condolences kairos12 Oct 2024 #36

I'm here, I see you, JustAnotherGen Oct 2024 #37

I'm so sorry. blogslug Oct 2024 #38

I'm so sorry... PCIntern Oct 2024 #39

I am sorry for your loss. Grumpy Old Guy Oct 2024 #40

I am so sorry. Peace and strength to you and his other family and friends. mucholderthandirt Oct 2024 #41

Condolences sarge43 Oct 2024 #42

"wrap your mind around it"? (natural thoughts) He was/is loved. He loved you. You & son were there. Stuff happens. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #43

Well said soandso Oct 2024 #241

I'm so sorry. My sympathy to you and your family. livetohike Oct 2024 #44

I'm sorry for your loss. NameAlreadyTaken Oct 2024 #45

I'm so sorry underpants Oct 2024 #46

I am so sorry. Wishing light and peace Dr. Shepper Oct 2024 #47

So very sorry Tesha Oct 2024 #48

I'm so sorry. KarenS Oct 2024 #49

Sorry for your loss. Brainfodder Oct 2024 #50

I'm so sorry for you. TheBlackAdder Oct 2024 #51

One step in front of the other you can do this Botany Oct 2024 #52

I'm so very sorry GigiLeigh Oct 2024 #53

Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. akbacchus_BC Oct 2024 #54

Condolences, 1monster gademocrat7 Oct 2024 #55

My condolences on the loss of your beloved, 1monster Niagara Oct 2024 #56

Deepest condolences. NNadir Oct 2024 #57

I will be thinking of you. It's a lot to process mahina Oct 2024 #58

This is so sad malaise Oct 2024 #59

I'm so sorry. LisaM Oct 2024 #60

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband passing. Liberal In Texas Oct 2024 #61

RIP Snoopy 7 Oct 2024 #62

So sorry for your loss, MacKasey Oct 2024 #63

So very sorry what you are going through. JohnSJ Oct 2024 #64

Sorry for your loss. May your heart find peace. ancianita Oct 2024 #65

Deepest condolences GeoWilliam750 Oct 2024 #66

I am truely sorry for your loss. Old Crank Oct 2024 #67

Sorry for your loss Jersey Devil Oct 2024 #68

My deepest sympathy bdamomma Oct 2024 #69

You are probably in shock mnhtnbb Oct 2024 #70

So, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. n/t iluvtennis Oct 2024 #71

So very sorry snowybirdie Oct 2024 #72

I am so sorry. usedtobedemgurl Oct 2024 #73

So sorry for your loss. Dear_Prudence Oct 2024 #74

Holding you and your family in the light. Your husband was lucky to have you japple Oct 2024 #75

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 2024 #76

Such a shock. I'm so very sorry for phylny Oct 2024 #77

That's terrible. I'm very sorry harumph Oct 2024 #78

My sympathies. pandr32 Oct 2024 #79

Hugs to you and your family Sea A Chell Oct 2024 #80

So very sorry flakey_foont Oct 2024 #81

I'm so sorry. ramen Oct 2024 #82

my biggest fear.... samnsara Oct 2024 #83

I can't imagine what you've just experienced, but as we age I guess we have to accept this is going to happen Vinca Oct 2024 #84

I am so sorry for your loss ecstatic Oct 2024 #85

It's a shock even when we know and I'm sorry you are going through it. Solly Mack Oct 2024 #86

So sorry for your loss. Groundhawg Oct 2024 #87

{{{hugs}}} Delphinus Oct 2024 #88

I am sorry you True Blue American Oct 2024 #89

So very sorry samplegirl Oct 2024 #90

My condolences for the loss of your dear one. oasis Oct 2024 #91

I'm so sorry for SunsetDreams2 Oct 2024 #92

Soooooooooooooo sorry for you and your stepson.....I have no words of comfort. a kennedy Oct 2024 #93

I am so so sorry. Janeyre Oct 2024 #94

Peace (n/t) PJMcK Oct 2024 #95

I am so sorry, 1monster dmr Oct 2024 #96

I'm sorry Bettie Oct 2024 #97

My deepest condolences for you and your family. LiberalLoner Oct 2024 #98

Hugs Y'all... My Sincere Condolences... MayReasonRule Oct 2024 #99

My deepest condolences La Coliniere Oct 2024 #100

I cannot even begin to know what you've just been through. I don't even know the depth of what it ... marble falls Oct 2024 #101

So sorry for your loss Americanme Oct 2024 #102

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Oct 2024 #103

Sending love, support, and hugs cally Oct 2024 #104

I'm so sorry. highplainsdem Oct 2024 #105

I'm so sorry, 1monster. arkielib Oct 2024 #106

I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself. Nt spooky3 Oct 2024 #107

I am so sorry for your loss Ruby the Liberal Oct 2024 #108

May you and your family find peace. riversedge Oct 2024 #109

So sorry for your loss SilverDawg Oct 2024 #110

I am so sorry for your loss Deep State Witch Oct 2024 #111

I'm so very sorry. My deepest sympahties to you and your family. NT Happy Hoosier Oct 2024 #112

I'm so sorry 1monster... democratsruletheday Oct 2024 #113

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Oct 2024 #114

My husband and I have been together since 1982. I don't know what I'd do if he died either? lark Oct 2024 #115

I am so sorry. Be kind to yourself, give yourself time to process and grieve. Bumbles Oct 2024 #116

I think you may be in shock. I'm emotionally wrapping my arms around you in a comforting hug. Joinfortmill Oct 2024 #117

... spanone Oct 2024 #118

j am sorry FightFight Oct 2024 #119

My thoughts are with you. JustinBulletin Oct 2024 #120

I'm so very sorry cate94 Oct 2024 #121

I'm so sorry.. onecaliberal Oct 2024 #122

Accept my sincere condolences. ThePartyThatListens Oct 2024 #123

I am so sorry Lulu KC Oct 2024 #124

I unexpectedly lost my brother TBF Oct 2024 #125

I am so sorry for you and your son. I glad you felt you could come here to share your grief. Fla Dem Oct 2024 #126

So sorry for you and your stepson. marked50 Oct 2024 #127

Condolences to you and your family. Mr. Mustard 2023 Oct 2024 #128

My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Oct 2024 #129

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and the trauma you and your son have been through. Trueblue Texan Oct 2024 #130

You are still in shock. Ilsa Oct 2024 #131

Sending you all kinds of strength, TruthAlwaysWins Oct 2024 #132

Your loss already happened over time. The good you've done masks this last bit. Festivito Oct 2024 #133

My deepest sympathies to you and your family mountain grammy Oct 2024 #134

My heart goes out to you and your son... GoldenMezzoDiva Oct 2024 #135

I'm so very sorry, 1monster. LuckyCharms Oct 2024 #136

I'm so sorry. MaryMagdaline Oct 2024 #137

Condolences for you and your family. diehardblue Oct 2024 #138

You will go through a wide range of emotions RainCaster Oct 2024 #139

So sorry to read this peggysue2 Oct 2024 #140

My deepest condolences. KS Toronado Oct 2024 #141

My sincere condolences ((hugs)) 💐 Deuxcents Oct 2024 #143

Im so sorry for your family's loss berniesandersmittens Oct 2024 #144

I am so sorry. May his memeories be a blessing to you and your family. debm55 Oct 2024 #145

... 2 Meow Momma Oct 2024 #146

Your long beloved husband Clouds Passing Oct 2024 #147

I am so very sorry for your loss! You have my very deepest condolences. I am glad that DU provided you a safe place to LaMouffette Oct 2024 #148

I'm so sorry for your loss 0rganism Oct 2024 #149

I'm so sorry for your loss. doubleplusgood Oct 2024 #150

I am so sorry to learn of your husband's passing RT Atlanta Oct 2024 #151

I am so sorry IbogaProject Oct 2024 #152

Please check in now and again and let us know you are okay. Anonymous we may be, but we care about you. Maru Kitteh Oct 2024 #153

I hear you, 1monster. TygrBright Oct 2024 #154

I am so so sorry... CaptainTruth Oct 2024 #155

I am so sorry. murielm99 Oct 2024 #156

My deepest sympathies to you & your family. -nt CrispyQ Oct 2024 #157

... AKwannabe Oct 2024 #158

So, so sorry 1monster. I'm glad you could share with us here. KPN Oct 2024 #159

My condolences to you and your family relayerbob Oct 2024 #160

Sorry to hear this. Lost for words, but bluestarone Oct 2024 #162

What a shock! My condolences and hugs to you. Passages Oct 2024 #163

I am so very sorry Highway61 Oct 2024 #164

My thoughts are with you Coexist Oct 2024 #165

You don't have to know how you feel---just feel--or not Maeve Oct 2024 #166

My condolences for your loss. Xavier Breath Oct 2024 #167

I know. Me too. 22 months ago. Richluu Oct 2024 #168

I'm so sorry. I lost my father to Parkinson's and Alzheimer's. Liberty Belle Oct 2024 #169

I know. Me too. 22 months ago. Richluu Oct 2024 #170

May his memory be an eternal blessing. róisín_dubh Oct 2024 #171

Sorry this happened the way it did. Arthur_Frain Oct 2024 #172

You have my sympathy anyway. Linda ladeewolf Oct 2024 #173

I am so very sorry... Spazito Oct 2024 #174

I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and all the family. c-rational Oct 2024 #175

I am so sorry kimbutgar Oct 2024 #176

I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 2024 #177

So very sorry DownriverDem Oct 2024 #178

Sending love and peace to you Wild blueberry Oct 2024 #179

I'm so sorry for your loss bikes and bunnies Oct 2024 #180

I'm sorry for your loss. Dan Oct 2024 #181

I am so sorry for your loss. PA Democrat Oct 2024 #182

I am so sorry. I pray for strength for you. LoisB Oct 2024 #183

I am so very sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Oct 2024 #184

So very sad for you and your sons people Oct 2024 #185

I am so very sorry. StarryNite Oct 2024 #186

Sincere condolences Mr.Bill Oct 2024 #187

So so sorry! PortTack Oct 2024 #188

I'm so sorry for your loss Danmel Oct 2024 #189

Grief Nigrum Cattus Oct 2024 #190

This saddens me greatly CountAllVotes Oct 2024 #191

its a blessing, but its damned too fast. my uncle's mother in law was slipping into AZ, had a heart attack pansypoo53219 Oct 2024 #192

My deepest sympathies Picaro Oct 2024 #193

I'm so sorry for your loss. I just lost my husband 3 weeks ago . sueh Oct 2024 #194

Sending hugs and love Tree Lady Oct 2024 #195

So sorry The Third Doctor Oct 2024 #196

We are never ready. Keep the memories with you. LiberalFighter Oct 2024 #197

I'm so sorry for your enormous loss, 1monster Wicked Blue Oct 2024 #198

So sorry for your loss. evolves Oct 2024 #199

This is one of the hardest things in life, and my heart goes out to you. colorado_ufo Oct 2024 #200

I wish I could hug you. pacalo Oct 2024 #201

Condolences and admiration DFW Oct 2024 #202

My deepest condolences to you on the loss virgdem Oct 2024 #203

A surreal moment for you and your stepson. Condolences. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 2024 #204

Condolences to you and your family. Peace & love be with all of you in the days to come. Hekate Oct 2024 #205

My sympathy goes out to you ms.pamela Oct 2024 #206

I am so sorry for your loss. StrictlyRockers Oct 2024 #207

Hugs sakabatou Oct 2024 #208

So Very Sorry ravjav Oct 2024 #209

Every sympathy to you and your family, Alice B. Oct 2024 #210

Some hugs from far away. Teacher of the Year Oct 2024 #211

I am so sorry 1monster. Diamond_Dog Oct 2024 #212

Just holding you in my thoughts.. Permanut Oct 2024 #213

Sending you love and emotional support. calimary Oct 2024 #214

My heart goes out to you. ificandream Oct 2024 #215

You have my sincerest condolences. I feel your pain. generalbetrayus Oct 2024 #216

I am so very sorry for your loss.... Dem4life1970 Oct 2024 #217

PEACE Windy Apple Oct 2024 #218

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your son wryter2000 Oct 2024 #219

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Duncan Grant Oct 2024 #220

May peace come to you and your son. NoSheep Oct 2024 #221

So, so sorry senseandsensibility Oct 2024 #222

I am so so sorry happy feet Oct 2024 #223

I am so sorry for you loss sdfernando Oct 2024 #224

I'm so sorry. You did everything you possibly could have done. Warpy Oct 2024 #225

I am so very sorry for your loss. Holding you in warmth and light. CousinIT Oct 2024 #226

"" AllaN01Bear Oct 2024 #227

So very sorry SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2024 #228

Dearest 1monster, condolences of the highest order MagickMuffin Oct 2024 #229

I'm terribly sorry misanthrope Oct 2024 #230

I am so sorry KT2000 Oct 2024 #231

So very sorry. n/t rambler_american Oct 2024 #232

Sorry for your loss. It has been almost 5 years since my husband died. appleannie1 Oct 2024 #233

Oh my dear I am so sorry nolabear Oct 2024 #234

Sorry for your loss. 💔 sarchasm Oct 2024 #235

So Sorry for your Loss Homoudont Oct 2024 #236

My deepest condolences LostOne4Ever Oct 2024 #237

Love and prayers for you and your family DinahMoeHum Oct 2024 #238

I am so very sorry. benfranklin1776 Oct 2024 #239

My condolences Catherine Vincent Oct 2024 #240

This is my nightmare.... bleedingulcers Oct 2024 #242

Sincerest condolences. nt. anamnua Oct 2024 #243

Woah, that's just Awful! My condolences. Especially bc it was a sudden shock... electric_blue68 Oct 2024 #244

I am so sorry. xmas74 Oct 2024 #245

I am so sorry for your loss... Demsrule86 Oct 2024 #246

I am so sorry for your loss. Take time, and take care of yourself. liberalla Oct 2024 #247

I'm so sorry for your loss. Beacool Oct 2024 #248

All Our Sympathies ProfessorGAC Oct 2024 #249

My heart bleeds for you soldierant Oct 2024 #250

I am so sorry for your loss HipChick Oct 2024 #251

Please add my sympathy to this outpouring. babylonsister Oct 2024 #252

May you be loved in the future, so sorry for your loss. Ellipsis Oct 2024 #253

So very sorry for both you and your son crimycarny Oct 2024 #254

Oh wow, so very sorry 😞 FirstLight Oct 2024 #255

So, so sorry LibinMo Oct 2024 #256

I'm so sorry. Even it you expect it "someday" it is always such a shock to the system. flying_wahini Oct 2024 #257

Sorry for your loss tishaLA Oct 2024 #258

Big hugs from me. Losing someone suddenly when you think there's more time is the worst... Violet_Crumble Oct 2024 #259

Condolences majdrfrtim Oct 2024 #260

Condolences to you and your family ribrepin Oct 2024 #261

Great peace and comfort to you and yours. TheKentuckian Oct 2024 #262