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alarimer

(17,146 posts)
30. Me too
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:56 PM
Nov 2024

And I haven't in years, probably.

Thinking of my 5 year old niece and what kind of world she will be living in. I grew up in the 80s and I (female) knew and was told I could be whatever I wanted to be. No constraints because of my gender. I also was not warned about shitty men, but that's another story. I did not have to deal with the pornification of everything and the fact that young men only think of girls/women as sex objects, making them do degrading acts they've seen in porn. And now her world might be constrained by no access to birth control (when the time comes).

I'm so glad that young women these days are ditching the loser/incel boys and men we seem to be creating (those losers voted for Trump in a big way). Still I fear we are on the verge of some sort of Handmaid's Tale situation, in which young women are not allowed to travel, because they might be traveling to have an abortion.

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Go for it! ananda Nov 2024 #1
Not silly. Healthy. 2 Meow Momma Nov 2024 #2
This. 🤗🤗🤗 LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #21
Not silly st all. I don't trust anyone who's not crying today MaryMagdaline Nov 2024 #3
I'm not crying because I'm too pissed to cry radical noodle Nov 2024 #50
Maybe they "choose" their policies based on whatever their horse says he's for. mobeau69 Nov 2024 #58
Go ahead. Let it out. In It to Win It Nov 2024 #4
I've been too numb to cry. It will come. Lonestarblue Nov 2024 #5
My tears welled up a couple times today, but the shock & fury is still too raw for me to let go Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #78
just let it all out NoRethugFriends Nov 2024 #6
No. Not silly at all. Play some tunes, let the tears fall. Solly Mack Nov 2024 #7
Tears for Fears? nt BidenRocks Nov 2024 #69
Cute. But, yes. Works. Releases tension. Solly Mack Nov 2024 #75
You are not alone, CatWoman. Kid Berwyn Nov 2024 #8
When my wife gets in tonight; I need a hug... EarthFirst Nov 2024 #9
i had to take the day off CatWoman Nov 2024 #11
Same onecaliberal Nov 2024 #18
Hoping to take off tomorrow, displacedvermoter Nov 2024 #29
Same for me. It ripped the vail from my eyes. onecaliberal Nov 2024 #38
i severely misunderestimated my fellow americans CatWoman Nov 2024 #73
We did just that. Too in a rush and still shell shocked this morning. paleotn Nov 2024 #68
This man has been there all day. When I was trying to console wifey this morning, I couldn't hold them back. Ferrets are Cool Nov 2024 #10
You, me, and others -- we get one day for this. Intractable Nov 2024 #12
You can here. blm Nov 2024 #13
Not silly at all MustLoveBeagles Nov 2024 #14
I don't find it silly. I'd bet many of us (myself included) have been this way much of the day. hlthe2b Nov 2024 #15
I was numb until her concession speech. Then it all came bursting through. Blaukraut Nov 2024 #16
Her speech brought me to tears too zeusdogmom Nov 2024 #24
This is a very sad moment for our country Blue Owl Nov 2024 #17
Grieving and mourning are needed! An ongoing process, in community when possible - n/t KatK Nov 2024 #19
Laugh all your laughs SomedayKindaLove Nov 2024 #20
My eyes are all sore and puffy because of all the tears i have cried. Trueblue1968 Nov 2024 #22
Mine too BunkieBandit Nov 2024 #51
Let it out. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2024 #23
You are not alone in that. n/t CousinIT Nov 2024 #25
I woke up sweating Roc2020 Nov 2024 #26
I'm not remotely close to crying. I'm more angry than I have ever been PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2024 #27
That's me Jilly_in_VA Nov 2024 #28
Me too alarimer Nov 2024 #30
I cried several times today. It didn't help. Native Nov 2024 #31
. Baitball Blogger Nov 2024 #32
Go ahead and cry. TomSlick Nov 2024 #33
KitFox KitFox Nov 2024 #34
Welcome to DU!!!!! bdamomma Nov 2024 #45
KitFox KitFox Nov 2024 #87
Yes, looking at the faces in the crowd, FemDemERA Nov 2024 #53
I get it. Just worked out on heavy punching bag for 25 minutes and feel better. But I may have to do it a lot this week. Silent Type Nov 2024 #35
I've been crying all day. Island Blue Nov 2024 #36
Let it go bdamomma Nov 2024 #37
Not silly at all. This has hurt more than I could imagine. I'm old. But I am breaking for our young Nanjeanne Nov 2024 #39
Please do it! You need the release and may MuseRider Nov 2024 #40
It's not silly wryter2000 Nov 2024 #41
I'd guess just about any psychologist or grief counselor would encourage that. calimary Nov 2024 #42
Grieving the loss of a very good friend - Democracy. Killed by a nobody and his criminal friends. A victim of a crime. SupportSanity Nov 2024 #43
If Lady Liberty bdamomma Nov 2024 #48
We all feel that way. Grumpy Old Guy Nov 2024 #44
Nothing silly about it. Lady Liberty just took a gut punch. Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #46
A good cry. yes barbtries Nov 2024 #47
Feeling that way much of today. elleng Nov 2024 #49
Nothing silly about crying today. TNNurse Nov 2024 #52
I didn't know the outcome until this morning. Wanted one last night of peaceful sleep. Dem2theMax Nov 2024 #54
I just had a good cry and I'm Blue_Roses Nov 2024 #55
I so feel you tenderfoot Nov 2024 #56
Have a good cry. madaboutharry Nov 2024 #57
me and 2 of my employees crying today CommonHumanity Nov 2024 #59
Do it Deep State Witch Nov 2024 #60
I feel betrayal Dem4life1234 Nov 2024 #61
Exactly how I feel. Diamond_Dog Nov 2024 #84
I was in my car today and felt like crying kimbutgar Nov 2024 #62
I did my crying early this morning. Jack Valentino Nov 2024 #63
You're not alone, CW. COL Mustard Nov 2024 #64
I cried for 3 hours today cate94 Nov 2024 #65
❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2024 #66
I am right there with you! aurora the great Nov 2024 #67
Not silly and yes it might help... Ysabel Nov 2024 #70
I've had numerous small and large cries duhneece Nov 2024 #71
I can understand your hesitation. However... CBHagman Nov 2024 #72
Not silly at all! hatrack Nov 2024 #74
It's okay to cry. BlueKota Nov 2024 #76
Find a quiet, private, and comfortable spot. magicarpet Nov 2024 #77
No it isn't. We as a country are no longer an honorable country. We were given a choice as a JohnSJ Nov 2024 #79
hugs to you, CatWoman fishwax Nov 2024 #80
I was just thinking about this! I have not cried Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2024 #81
I get it. mzmolly Nov 2024 #82
I want to cry but it won't come out. OnionPatch Nov 2024 #83
Go ahead......ya need it, I've been bawling off and on since I woke up yesterday...... a kennedy Nov 2024 #85
We've all had a GIGANTIC loss CatWoman Faux pas Nov 2024 #86
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