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95. nope. suppressing the hate is the thing that's unhealthy

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Thu Nov 7, 2024, 01:09 PM

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How is everyone handling the hate they feel right now? [View all] hamsterjill Nov 2024 OP

Not well XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #1

I hope she does, too! hamsterjill Nov 2024 #9

I gave that bitch over 400 XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #25

I am not handling my HATE well at all ...... I wish i could shoot Them all. Im not violent either. Trueblue1968 Nov 2024 #158

They just punched every woman in the face. That's what happened. Walleye Nov 2024 #2

Yes--they punched us in the face, pushed us to the ground, and then, boot on our necks, snarled, "now, stay down!" Timeflyer Nov 2024 #166

There isn't enough sugar in the world orangecrush Nov 2024 #3

No hate, just sorrow and fear Fiendish Thingy Nov 2024 #4

Hate may be a waste of time, but it's real and I feel it for every trumper right now. lark Nov 2024 #110

I don't hate them, I just hope they suffer. Polly Hennessey Nov 2024 #5

I feel the same way. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #12

I am livid. I don't see getting over it ever. onecaliberal Nov 2024 #111

Do What Gov. Walz Suggested and Multitask. The_Counsel Nov 2024 #128

I feel like every time someone complains relayerbob Nov 2024 #171

I will not have anything to do with MAGA relatives, except for brief necessary exchanges. Wingus Dingus Nov 2024 #6

and that's even difficult for me...ugh La Coliniere Nov 2024 #100

Glad I Don't Own A Gun SoCalDavidS Nov 2024 #7

I am going to do the opposite gab13by13 Nov 2024 #8

I've had a similar line of thinking. yardwork Nov 2024 #40

You bet, I am going to seek them out and hound them. gab13by13 Nov 2024 #51

I saw that video. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #56

Bingo. yardwork Nov 2024 #69

Some news show talked about that the other day... usedtobedemgurl Nov 2024 #84

As I always say..it's better to be pissed off than pissed on. BattleRow Nov 2024 #101

Harass them...when things go bad. Septua Nov 2024 #125

Hate eats at you. I don't hate anyone. It isn't healthy for ourselves. Groundhawg Nov 2024 #10

nope. suppressing the hate is the thing that's unhealthy NoRethugFriends Nov 2024 #95

I'm un-friending anyone who posted they're happy TFG won Freddie Nov 2024 #11

I never understood Dem4life1234 Nov 2024 #49

Anti-vax, anti-science doctors and nurses... deurbano Nov 2024 #173

TSF - The sick fuck. onecaliberal Nov 2024 #113

I feel more sadness than hate. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #13

Well said WestMichRad Nov 2024 #97

I, too, am mostly sad, but still trying to process the meaning of this election result. Lonestarblue Nov 2024 #116

I went to a Sabrina Carpenter concert last night. pfitz59 Nov 2024 #14

Well women damn sure didn't do it this time! hamsterjill Nov 2024 #19

Trump's strategy of using threats and intimidation worked gab13by13 Nov 2024 #28

But her endorsement rendered 300,000 voter registrations in 24 hours hamsterjill Nov 2024 #52

Or many, if not most of them, Mr.Bill Nov 2024 #74

This message was self-deleted by its author Different Drummer Nov 2024 #94

Wtf.... She endorsed harris immediately after the debate questionseverything Nov 2024 #149

She Put Out A Lovely Written Endorsement SoCalDavidS Nov 2024 #152

On Election Day she put out a tic toc explaining why voting for harris was so important questionseverything Nov 2024 #155

It Hardly Matters Now SoCalDavidS Nov 2024 #157

Interesting. I had a similar feeling when I saw the movie Mama Mia 2. LisaM Nov 2024 #98

Well, 70% of them likely didn't vote, or voted against Harris relayerbob Nov 2024 #170

I'm kinda in denial still. But, not all the time. I wind in and out of it . mucifer Nov 2024 #15

Yes, I am having SilverDawg Nov 2024 #16

Mostly I hate the way I feel BeyondGeography Nov 2024 #17

Yeah, it feels like 84 to me LeftInTX Nov 2024 #54

Really good point Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #75

I'm oddly at peace with myself Mz Pip Nov 2024 #18

This GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #24

I largely agree with this. TwilightZone Nov 2024 #31

As long as Medicare and Social Seecurity holds up, Mr.Bill Nov 2024 #78

Don't forget the poorer of us who need/have Medicaid! electric_blue68 Nov 2024 #156

No. They will just blame Democrats. travelingthrulife Nov 2024 #123

I have never wished anyone ill Bettie Nov 2024 #20

+1000 hamsterjill Nov 2024 #41

You're not wishing them ill, you're wishing them reality. hatrack Nov 2024 #145

Feel the same way. Want to enjoy schadenfreude when the Leopard eats their face. LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #21

Badly I am afraid. MuseRider Nov 2024 #22

It's hard. Quiet Em Nov 2024 #23

Jump in, anyway. nt GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #29

Yeah, I know Quiet Em Nov 2024 #34

No, don't unless you know they aren't Trumpers hamsterjill Nov 2024 #43

Political litmus test. roamer65 Nov 2024 #32

Yeah, anyone with that sticker is getting avoided. Quiet Em Nov 2024 #36

...and for safety sake too. roamer65 Nov 2024 #37

Just slow down and tell them to pull themselves up by their bootstraps Ray Bruns Nov 2024 #112

Badly MaryMagdaline Nov 2024 #26

In a word, lousy. CanonRay Nov 2024 #27

I'm channeling it into a severe austerity budget. roamer65 Nov 2024 #30

I'm doing the same. A one-family attempt to collapse the Trump economy, lol. Wingus Dingus Nov 2024 #48

There is power in numbers. roamer65 Nov 2024 #63

Yep. I'm the same way lately--hoard the money, move it around as you see fit, but don't buy shit you don't need. Wingus Dingus Nov 2024 #68

Collapsing the economy is part of their plan. Nt lostnfound Nov 2024 #179

I'm felt the hate initially but now, it just is what it is. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #33

I will only engage with them only in the most minimum ways possible, and will absolutely refuse to discuss anything JohnSJ Nov 2024 #35

You won't ever change their minds, anyway. They have their beliefs and grievances and Wingus Dingus Nov 2024 #42

I hate them. StarryNite Nov 2024 #38

I'm allowing myself all my feelings and allowing them to change. yardwork Nov 2024 #39

Rec'd Kaleva Nov 2024 #50

Thanks. yardwork Nov 2024 #65

Not hate ... it's more a combo of frustration and disgust ... and dread for the future FakeNoose Nov 2024 #44

And wait til the tariffs kick in Freddie Nov 2024 #177

I don't feel hate Kaleva Nov 2024 #45

I'm still recoverng from being on my feet for a month! LeftInTX Nov 2024 #46

TY for all you did! moonscape Nov 2024 #67

What hate? joshcryer Nov 2024 #47

You're absolutely right ailsagirl Nov 2024 #174

For my sanity I need to take a break Luck Counts Nov 2024 #53

This message was self-deleted by its author Nanuke Nov 2024 #109

I have been going through my social media feeds TBF Nov 2024 #55

Were you not old enough to vote in 2016? hamsterjill Nov 2024 #58

At that point I don't think I truly appreciated TBF Nov 2024 #133

Thank you for your honesty. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #137

Remove them from your personal intimate Blue Full Moon Nov 2024 #57

No hate, but plenty of anger. Dulcinea Nov 2024 #59

I hope you are right but I don't think you are. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #61

I'm staying away from hate ... Jkanad Nov 2024 #60

My sister in law who is married to a maga ( who's marriage I think is going to end soon) told her brother kimbutgar Nov 2024 #62

It blows my mind how any liberal woman could stay married to a MAGA. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #138

When the disasterous debate happened he was gloating kimbutgar Nov 2024 #147

I am letting my hate flow freely through City Lights Nov 2024 #64

Good beer & good music. CaptainTruth Nov 2024 #66

Not well. Feel similarly. Total legal system collapse and Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #70

Hate kills the soul of the hater. Don't hate. Hesitate. Contemplate. Educate. Emulate. Communicate. Devastate. ancianita Nov 2024 #71

I'm not handling it well at all. Somehow, I have to get my brain focused on something other than politics. Vinca Nov 2024 #72

This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2024 #73

I am right there with you FirstLight Nov 2024 #76

I don't like to hate... 2naSalit Nov 2024 #77

The horror at our national suicide is just sinking in. NNadir Nov 2024 #79

Using it to simplify my life . . . hatrack Nov 2024 #80

I have given up on them. usedtobedemgurl Nov 2024 #81

Turned on a local sports radio channel nitpicked Nov 2024 #82

Music Figarosmom Nov 2024 #83

Hear, hear! BigmanPigman Nov 2024 #85

I realized a long time ago that the consequences of hate are essentially self-destructive. patphil Nov 2024 #86

I prefer to learn to be indifferent to their fate. Hate requires the expenditure of dobleremolque Nov 2024 #87

Shock, then sadness, disappointment... and now... Trust_Reality Nov 2024 #88

PS Trust_Reality Nov 2024 #92

Better now. duncang Nov 2024 #89

Like this. It goes through my fingers. lees1975 Nov 2024 #90

not well... da svenster Nov 2024 #91

When trumpers DownriverDem Nov 2024 #93

I think about the leopard chewing off their faces. GoCubsGo Nov 2024 #96

I'm cutting all Republicans out of my life. Rizen Nov 2024 #99

I did that in 2016. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #103

For me, Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #153

My MAGA neighbor blueknight73 Nov 2024 #102

That was a dumb thing to tell anyone XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #104

Please don't Vogon_Glory Nov 2024 #130

I think you should. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #139

I have the wheels blueknight73 Nov 2024 #146

Good for you. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #164

Good for you. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #165

I refuse to acknowledge the results of this election. Not today, not ever. Initech Nov 2024 #105

Not julmur Nov 2024 #106

I have lunch every Friday with my repug former bff as of Tues. lark Nov 2024 #107

I haven't picked any fights yet, but I've been in a simmering rage since 1994 because of Newt Gingrich LT Barclay Nov 2024 #108

I feel it in my body adam_vermont Nov 2024 #114

They despise us to the core sky_masterson Nov 2024 #115

Saddened but, no hate in my heart Darnell1972 Nov 2024 #117

This country is dead to me. VanceFan Nov 2024 #118

i've swapped the hate for complete contempt and disgust for Don and those who voted for him. Ping Tung Nov 2024 #119

I'm sitting with it for as long as I need to Coexist Nov 2024 #120

My hate is all consuming... Moostache Nov 2024 #121

Half of Americans rejected this IronLionZion Nov 2024 #122

There are three MAGATs I can't cut off Bayard Nov 2024 #124

I can certainly respect your right to do that (i.e., keep them in your life). hamsterjill Nov 2024 #140

Hate and resentment are dangerous emotions for me Vogon_Glory Nov 2024 #126

Agreed osaMABUSh Nov 2024 #127

Terrified but turning it into action on this end gay texan Nov 2024 #129

Hate is unproductive. It's draining. I'm too old to hate. I no longer go there. Doodley Nov 2024 #131

I am done with religion. Dawson Leery Nov 2024 #132

This message was self-deleted by its author morillon Nov 2024 #134

I don't feel hate. It's more like resigned disgust. haele Nov 2024 #135

I do not hate. H2O Man Nov 2024 #136

You are to be commended. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #141

Yes H2O Man Nov 2024 #142

Not really hatred. Different Drummer Nov 2024 #143

I'm beyond hate with these Jspur Nov 2024 #144

Trying my best to ignore anything maga SunImp Nov 2024 #148

Amen. Duppers Nov 2024 #150

deleted snpsmom Nov 2024 #151

Video games and reading fantasy/scifi novels LoveSucky Nov 2024 #154

I feel a lot like you. lobointexas Nov 2024 #159

We as liberals and progressives B.See Nov 2024 #160

I hate them more! LiberalFighter Nov 2024 #161

It's what keeps me going Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Nov 2024 #162

Hate was in me at first.... Mystery sage Nov 2024 #163

More or less okay DemonGoddess Nov 2024 #167

Not well! BlueMTexpat Nov 2024 #168

Like any other grief GreatGazoo Nov 2024 #169

I'm awful samplegirl Nov 2024 #172

Almost called you yesterday! hamsterjill Nov 2024 #176

Hate is corrosive. hay rick Nov 2024 #175

My family Linda ladeewolf Nov 2024 #178

Fortunately, we have been able to have a few days off Meowmee Nov 2024 #180

Just angry Old_kid Nov 2024 #181

No problem with the hate PhilosopherKing Nov 2024 #182

Not good 😞 so worried about everything going to 💩. Can't sleep good. Don't want to talk to anyone. TommieMommy Nov 2024 #183

I was thinking of performatively wailing Sympthsical Nov 2024 #184