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slightlv

(7,253 posts)
51. My grandson is a carbon copy of me...
Sun Mar 2, 2025, 06:06 PM
Mar 2025

my daughter, not so much. She's so much like her father (that I divorced 40 years ago). In a lot of ways, she's like trump. She inherited my mother's narcissistic, manipulative nature and is completely a transactional person. For example, she bought a house I told her I recommend her to think hard about before signing the paperwork. She had to have both hers and my grandson's income in order to qualify, and he's co-owner now. It's caused all kinds of hassle because she's insisting HE pay her... for what I'm not sure. She's basically thrown out both boys and, while they're old enough to be on their own, emotionally even I can tell they're not ready. But she has a new boyfriend and is living with him. The "kids" are just in the way.

I raised this child on the old "Our Bodies" book from the 60/70's. Nothing I tried to teach seemed to "take." Her father has money, so he's much favored in her view (although she can only borrow money from him... and repay it with interest). My family has always just seen what one of us needs and passes on something we've got to fill the need. No money, no hassles, no bartering. Family takes care of family. And that's going to an important phrase to remember as we get further into trumps reign.

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I still think it will take more time until you have the majority of people in full FloridaBlues Mar 2025 #1
It may not have to hit them personally but a family member who does not receive their medical care Deuxcents Mar 2025 #3
It's kinda like UKraine. LilElf70 Mar 2025 #5
This house of cards is built from a stacked deck. BattleRow Mar 2025 #13
I don't think it will take more than 3 - 6 months. Dan Mar 2025 #36
Probably simmer till summer... BattleRow Mar 2025 #39
Plus, I think that once Dan Mar 2025 #42
I'm surprised that some Magat hasn't championed the high cost of eggs.. BattleRow Mar 2025 #46
I believe you're right DeeDeeNY Mar 2025 #18
Yup, big time republianmushroom Mar 2025 #2
Can't happen soon enough to suit me. (nt) Paladin Mar 2025 #4
Maga has been puting on a brave face about musk so far Klarkashton Mar 2025 #6
musk has a 23% approval rating nationally, there has to be some maga in that mix PortTack Mar 2025 #25
"The US now looks like a bunch of morons, trying to destroy their own government. " Intractable Mar 2025 #7
DUer WiVoter said it perfectly: "TFG Wants To Destroy The US Because He Lost" Scrivener7 Mar 2025 #10
There's no doubt in my mind Trump wants revenge on the USA and the rest of the world Intractable Mar 2025 #11
And privatizing every human service imaginable. BattleRow Mar 2025 #14
when it is so filthy... GiqueCee Mar 2025 #41
Unfortunately it isn't even close. There is still too many propaganda outlets that label themselves as "news" that push JohnSJ Mar 2025 #8
sadly I agree 100% Tumbulu Mar 2025 #27
And All This Time We Were Wondering How We Can Topple MAGA's - And All We Had To Do.... global1 Mar 2025 #9
The self destruction is obvious LilElf70 Mar 2025 #12
hopes and prayers LymphocyteLover Mar 2025 #35
Tipping point is here or near. usonian Mar 2025 #15
Agree two recent polls, one from Pew 91%, the other from IPOS 78% of Americans do not like or want putin PortTack Mar 2025 #28
I'm not sure we're the greatest weathervane. DemocratSinceBirth Mar 2025 #16
In the last two elections about one third of markodochartaigh Mar 2025 #20
I love... GiqueCee Mar 2025 #38
This time it's not a recession... slightlv Mar 2025 #21
that is how I see it too Tumbulu Mar 2025 #44
We just don't teach enough history. slightlv Mar 2025 #52
Cynic, I've seen this movie before n/t hibbing Mar 2025 #17
Born in 1986 EarthAbides Mar 2025 #19
Both my grandson and my daughter work on post as civilians... slightlv Mar 2025 #24
Two Commandants were fired for being female. usonian Mar 2025 #48
My grandson is a carbon copy of me... slightlv Mar 2025 #51
IT tech & gaming firm positions are conduits to coming here to the EU & the UK to live. They should do a reconnoitre of Celerity Mar 2025 #26
I missed by one generation the right to immigrate to Ireland. slightlv Mar 2025 #50
I don't believe the cult will EVER wake up. BlueTsunami2018 Mar 2025 #22
A diet of hamburger helper and hanging around Home Depot parking lot, usonian Mar 2025 #49
Just wait until Eyore and DOGE dismantle Social Security. You ain't seen nothing yet! n/t PatrickforB Mar 2025 #23
Oh, Patrick... bite your freaking tongue /snark slightlv Mar 2025 #29
What an interesting comment. 'Heaven is closed to them and Hell doesn't want them...' PatrickforB Mar 2025 #53
Very interesting, intense reply. Thank you! slightlv Mar 2025 #54
yup AmandaRuth Mar 2025 #30
It's all in his script.. Escape Mar 2025 #31
I guess the real question is LilElf70 Mar 2025 #32
No... GiqueCee Mar 2025 #33
this level of stupidity sure the fuck isn't sustainable LymphocyteLover Mar 2025 #34
According to CNN today 74% of R's want a quick end to the war and Russia to keep the land it stole Ponietz Mar 2025 #37
Sorry - I think the maggots are creaming with glee & will continue to do so as they're plunging down into the volcano NBachers Mar 2025 #40
Don't need or expect a particular schedule. AmericaUnderSiege Mar 2025 #43
The coming recession will seal the deal zappaman Mar 2025 #45
Without the U.S. to prop it up, the other house of cards, Christianity, might collapse with it. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Mar 2025 #47
Would not surprise me at all. Torchlight Mar 2025 #55
Chaos, shock, collapse, confusion, suffering often lead to the rise of authoritarians, greater inequality, less wiggs Mar 2025 #56
Propaganda Johnny2X2X Mar 2025 #57
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