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Trueblue Texan

(4,196 posts)
38. A-F*ING-MEN!!!
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:23 AM
Aug 2025

Few men seem to grasp the deeply ingrained sense of vulnerability that ALL women, even the strongest of us feel ALL the time. We learn this intuitively growing up in a male dominated society where females are taught that THEY are responsible for whatever violations of their person they endure. Even in my own home, I have difficulty conveying to my husband that YES open blinds bother me, even in the daylight--not because of the light, but because they reveal there is a woman in the house. I am not generally a fearful person. This feels more instinctive. It is safer to be invisible in this world that hates women.

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"...a broader conversation and deeper change." J_William_Ryan Aug 2025 #1
I also want a "broader conversation and deeper change" cally Aug 2025 #2
The tip of the iceberg bucolic_frolic Aug 2025 #3
Who knows whats going on "behind the green door"? erronis Aug 2025 #9
It's far bigger for multiple reasons. snot Aug 2025 #4
Here are somethings to think about: Baitball Blogger Aug 2025 #5
You're talking about the Epstein/Trump sex operation. Weinstein and many others are all over the place. erronis Aug 2025 #6
It's a worldwide epidemic according to the DOJ. littlemissmartypants Aug 2025 #8
All this is at least to some extent because the world's largest religions all make women second class citizens. flashman13 Aug 2025 #7
THIS! THIS! THIS! OMGWTF Aug 2025 #13
And yet Jesus Himself... Dem4life1970 Aug 2025 #31
I am just wondering, questioning Dan Aug 2025 #10
For some of the white women it might be his racism... electric_blue68 Aug 2025 #21
Tragically enough, oppressed people tend to whathehell Aug 2025 #23
Oh...yeah. I forgot that's a part ... electric_blue68 Aug 2025 #24
Absolutely. n/t whathehell Aug 2025 #25
Sure beats me. calimary Aug 2025 #27
Yeah, but we don't know just how many of them were already forced to vote for him. OldBaldy1701E Aug 2025 #29
Abuse when young does not help women identify abusive men to be able to stay away from them Stargazer99 Aug 2025 #32
That to me is one of the reasons that Dan Aug 2025 #33
K & R SunSeeker Aug 2025 #11
Society Isn't Ready Deep State Witch Aug 2025 #12
Obviously some of us want this conversation. Perhaps those in power want to keep quiet. erronis Aug 2025 #14
Exactly Deep State Witch Aug 2025 #15
And, I, among many appreciate that you are driving such a conversation here and now. It's critically important. NNadir Aug 2025 #17
To whit...they elected a rapist over much MUCH more qualified women, twice. nt wiggs Aug 2025 #16
DOJ Cover Up of drug trafficking has been going on for decades... AntiFascist Aug 2025 #18
K&R red dog 1 Aug 2025 #19
Good Read - K&R ProfessorGAC Aug 2025 #20
It can be so dispiriting at times. And there are countries that are far worse. Ty for this electric_blue68 Aug 2025 #22
Way recommended! H2O Man Aug 2025 #26
K&R, thank you for posting this. nt. druidity33 Aug 2025 #28
By calling slavers such as Epstein, Maxwell, and others human traffickers... Hugin Aug 2025 #30
Thanks for posting. Addressing the big issue will decrease individual ones. twodogsbarking Aug 2025 #34
Excellent article - well worth reading in full! Thanks for posting. nt ihaveaquestion Aug 2025 #35
Excellent article, post, and discussion Wild blueberry Aug 2025 #36
KNR and bookmarking. niyad Aug 2025 #37
A-F*ING-MEN!!! Trueblue Texan Aug 2025 #38
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