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obamanut2012

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12. Firstly, I am glad you are okay
Thu Nov 13, 2025, 09:58 AM
Nov 13

We have met IRL, and you are a great person.

Secondly, when you feel able to, I would 00% contact Marriott about this -- they actually have a lot of locations near major medical centers, and often take in Ronald McDonald house and similar overflows. I don't work for them, but know via my job they pride themselves in assisting folks like you.

on edit: and yes, ask. A situation a couple years ago shows this: there was an elderly lady sitting cowering under the overhang outside Safeway. It was cold, rainy, she had two suitcases. Dressed very nicely with a nice haircut, so not the usual unhoused we see there. I always stop when I see older women -- Sacramento has motels for them and single moms. Long story short: her housing became unstable because of her landlord's death, she was retired, and had no local family or close friends anymore. She let me call the emergency shelter number, although she started crying and said she was embarrassed and didn't want me to. Within 15 minutes, a social worker and medic came and took her away -- they told em she would ahve a safe room to herself, food,e tc., and they would make sure she had a good place to land.

So, always ask. People you think seem together or middle class need help. Do not be embarrassed. The above story isn't about me, it's about just stopping and aksing.

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Hope you continue to heal. mwmisses4289 Nov 13 #1
Sounds like a journey. mountain grammy Nov 13 #2
I am so happy you MuseRider Nov 13 #3
What a good reminder deRien Nov 13 #4
I agree that reaching out, in a respectful way, is the right thing to do. Like saying you recognize the Wonder Why Nov 13 #5
Nice post malaise Nov 13 #6
I would like to think most people are kind and caring. Fla Dem Nov 13 #7
What a beautiful and uplifting post! NNadir Nov 13 #8
A friend calls helpful strangers earth angels. I've needed them and found them a time or two and thankfully done MLAA Nov 13 #9
This is such a good message. Oneironaut Nov 13 #10
Hope all is well.Yes, kindness & gratitude are highly underrated. Joinfortmill Nov 13 #11
Firstly, I am glad you are okay obamanut2012 Nov 13 #12
I hope you are healing well now 💚 Clouds Passing Nov 13 #13
Thank you for your insightful outlook, even in your distress. My son just saved a person's FailureToCommunicate Nov 13 #14
Retired medic Roy Rolling Nov 13 #15
Vibes to you for continued recovery and healing, and to all who helped you. niyad Nov 13 #16
there are good people out there . AllaN01Bear Nov 13 #17
I'm sorry for your pain and discomfort, and I hope things are getting better soon FakeNoose Nov 13 #18
My first read of the day. A wonderful reminder to pay it forward. At your worst, be a human being among humans being. mjvpi Nov 13 #19
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