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Showing Original Post only (View all)I am tired. took Rich back to the hospital as he was vomiting and urinating blood on Wednesday. They said he would have [View all]
after effects of the radiation for up to a month, I also am very upset with my family. I haven't talked to them since the end of June,when I called and told them about Rich's cancer. The reply back "Everyone has to die sometimes so stop your crying" and my sister yells "how am I going to go to my appointment." No calls, no cards. nothing. Many people know the abuse I had and still have with them. I am sitting here crying about how my husband and son and myself have been treated. I can't see what I ever did that would make them hate me so much. I have done everything they wanted including putting them over my own family here. I just don't understand. What did I do wrong.to be sexually physically and emotionally abused by them?
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I am tired. took Rich back to the hospital as he was vomiting and urinating blood on Wednesday. They said he would have [View all]
debm55
Sep 20
OP
Admitting abuse takes tremendous courage; it is NOT your fault. The abusers are the broken
Ziggysmom
Sep 20
#13
You didn't do anything. They are showing who they are and it is deplorable. I am sorry and hope Rich will be OK. ED
Evolve Dammit
Sep 20
#16
You have to understand and allow yourself to take in the fact that THEY are wrong. NOT you.
onecaliberal
Sep 20
#19
You did nothing wrong. Their reactions are about them. Focus on you and Rich and being happy.
c-rational
Sep 20
#23
I am so sorry to hear of this. It is time to cut anything that interferes with your life out.
marble falls
Sep 20
#34
I hope the side effects don't last long. I would venture to say that you did nothing wrong. Hang in there.
LoisB
Sep 20
#41
I am sorry you have to go through this. You can't change selfish people. Just hold on to those you love a bit closer.
Doodley
Sep 20
#51
Double tragic when folks that should be backing you fail and add more problems. All my best hugs to You!!!
IA8IT
Sep 20
#53