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BWdem4life

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Wed Oct 30, 2024, 09:03 AM Oct 2024

My daughter just shared the happy news... [View all]

She has earned her Associate of Arts!



She is 29. Me being poor, (and a single dad to boot), I was unable to pay for college. I warned her very strongly against student loans, and told her there was really no rush. I myself have no degree - I washed out early due to the high cost (even in 1987 it was too much for me), went to work and never got one.

Opportunity came when she broke up with her boyfriend in 2020 and moved in with me and my fiance. At that point she was 25. I told her that as long as she was going to school, she could pay $200 rent. She took the bull by the horns, got financial aid and worked part time, went to community college.

Persistence has paid off and she has her first degree. She is now at a good, but relatively inexpensive 4-year institution, working on a BS in Chemistry. Why chemistry? Heck if I know... I was lousy in Chemistry. But I'm sure it will open all kinds of doors for her. She had to move in with her grandma because it was too far away, which is actually very helpful to my mom as her husband has cancer now

At any rate, that's my boast for the day!

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Congratulations, this is wonderful news FakeNoose Oct 2024 #1
Great news. Good for her. underpants Oct 2024 #2
Good news is great to hear! Not boasting at all! Hope22 Oct 2024 #3
Chemistry? Excellent choice Easterncedar Oct 2024 #4
Yes, not easy, but leads to a lifetime of delights and employment. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #8
#1 reason to boast, and good for you AND your daughter. a kennedy Oct 2024 #5
Sending the vibes to all of you! Faux pas Oct 2024 #6
The little things are actually big things when you cachukis Oct 2024 #7
Fantastic! MLAA Oct 2024 #9
Congratulations to you and your daughter. debm55 Oct 2024 #10
Fantastic news! No wonder you're proud.... Tanuki Oct 2024 #11
WOW, SUPER for her!! robleb Oct 2024 #12
Congratulations to her and you! You have every reason to be proud and boast! liberalla Oct 2024 #13
Woohoo! iluvtennis Oct 2024 #14
I am a chemist and it is a pleasure to welcome a young woman to our profession. NNadir Oct 2024 #15
Congratulations to you both! Chemistry is an awesome choice. woodsprite Oct 2024 #16
This is great - TBF Oct 2024 #17
Congratulations, well done by all. Chemistry is a wonderful field which can lead to many opportunities. c-rational Oct 2024 #18
Good for her! I know you must be very proud. I wish her well. LoisB Oct 2024 #19
Kudos to your daughter zeusdogmom Oct 2024 #20
Congratulations! And some advice from a former academic administrator MyMission Oct 2024 #21
That's just great! people Oct 2024 #22
Congratulations! I know exactly how you feel yobrault1 Oct 2024 #23
A BS in Chemistry can open doors Biglinda 52 Oct 2024 #24
Well done sir! LittleGirl Oct 2024 #25
Very inspiring story! karin_sj Oct 2024 #26
Fabulous! Tell her all the good people on DU are proud of her!!! Karadeniz Oct 2024 #27
I will! nt BWdem4life Oct 2024 #29
That is a wonderful accomplishment!! CrispyQ Oct 2024 #28
Congrats! Wishing all the best for her and you! (n/t) Moostache Oct 2024 #30
Congratulations to your daughter! DemonGoddess Oct 2024 #31
Fabulous! leftieNanner Oct 2024 #32
Terrific news!!! calimary Oct 2024 #33
I've been telling a lot of kids that an AD will net them a job that pays the bills Warpy Oct 2024 #34
wonderful for you & her!!! bluboid Oct 2024 #35
Good job Figarosmom Oct 2024 #36
Soooooo happy for all of you! What an accomplishment!!! Liberal In Red State Oct 2024 #37
Congrats malaise Oct 2024 #38
Congratulations to both of you! That is how I got my college degrees, some decades ago. Ziggysmom Oct 2024 #39
Congratulations! You should be very proud. PittBlue Oct 2024 #40
Excellent news! Ligyron Oct 2024 #41
Congratulations to your daughter! It is a wonderful achievement! HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #42
Chemistry is a great career choice -- my dad was a food chemist, flavorist & scientist for over 50 years Bluejeans Oct 2024 #43
That is WONDERFUL!!!! GeoWilliam750 Oct 2024 #44
Congrats bdamomma Oct 2024 #45
kudos to you, too Skittles Oct 2024 #46
How awesome congratulations to her ,and go proud daddy!! FirstLight Oct 2024 #47
Excellent!! catchnrelease Oct 2024 #48
Good for her Old Crank Oct 2024 #49
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