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polly7

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35. I didn't tell you what to do, please read more closely.

Fri Jun 22, 2012, 08:14 PM

Jun 2012

Criticism is one thing ....... being purposefully cruel is something I don't understand, so I guess that is my issue. The trouble is, someone was hurt, day after day ... and not just by one or two people, but a whole relentless gang. It was a continuous attack, and for what??? to keep control of a group that was so unwelcoming that even a hard-ass like me didn't dare post in it. Personal information was even passed around to demonize her with. Yes, she is owed an apology. I guess the only thing that really matters is that she realizes and owns that. She can hold her head high!

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We are going to have an election for a new host in this group [View all] yardwork Jun 2012 OP

Some of us had discussed this when we discussed merging FG and F & D obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #1

Skinner has said that if we merge, although he can save all of F&DG's posts... Neoma Jun 2012 #2

Gotcha obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #12

Thanks to Neoma for her service FloridaJudy Jun 2012 #3

+1 Neoma has been wonderful. yardwork Jun 2012 #5

Neoma, thanks for your work here, I know you took a lot of abuse to settle some problems here CreekDog Jun 2012 #4

I am looking forward to elections in this forum La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2012 #6

Thank you Neoma and the other hosts that took on the positions maddezmom Jun 2012 #7

Hats off to Neoma and the co-hosts for leading the group through a difficult time Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #8

Thanks libodem Jun 2012 #9

That's really out of line. I'm guessing some here aren't interested in healing the rift... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #10

If there's any apologies to be made to heal anything, it should be to me. Neoma Jun 2012 #16

You did a great job as host, especially considering all of the attacks Jamastiene Jun 2012 #18

The whole world doesn't revolve around you, Neoma... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #20

Why not an apology that would cost you what ........... 5 seconds of your life? polly7 Jun 2012 #22

I've got nothing tio apologise for, that's why... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #23

Sure you do .......... the links are all still there. nt. polly7 Jun 2012 #24

No, I don't. Please stop telling me what I need to do. Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #25

I didn't tell you what to do, please read more closely. polly7 Jun 2012 #35

Yeah, you actually did. And I wasn't mean, definately not compared to attacks I've seen from you... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #37

No I didn't. Read again. polly7 Jun 2012 #53

In the interest in looking to the future kdmorris Jun 2012 #32

That doesn't sound like looking to the future... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #40

Awesome kdmorris Jun 2012 #51

Yes, the whole world revolves around me, that was exactly what I was saying. Neoma Jun 2012 #46

Neoma... LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #48

I'm just not interested in rehashing old drama... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #52

excuse me, but your rehash is showing... Whisp Jun 2012 #56

No rehash from me. I felt it was important to let Neoma know I don't hate her... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #60

I wasn't offended, so that's okay. Whisp Jun 2012 #62

I don't dislike you. I simply don't understand the attacks, not only by you. Neoma Jun 2012 #57

Neoma is not rehashing. Whisp Jun 2012 #64

So are these things really that good or what? snooper2 Jun 2012 #119

Hey, Neoma :) Whisp Jun 2012 #55

Are you insinuating that seaybeyond is a trans-phobic with that "I assure you" link? Little Star Jun 2012 #21

iverglas DM'ed it to me. Neoma Jun 2012 #26

It is transphobic. The statements in that screen shot DM are extremely transphobic. yardwork Jun 2012 #27

But iverglas is gone? DURHAM D Jun 2012 #28

The whole riot was because I fired and blocked iverglas. Neoma Jun 2012 #31

No. It wasn't about iverglas at all. n/t MadrasT Jun 2012 #45

Not at first, no. Neoma Jun 2012 #47

Like Voldemort, her name cannot be spoken FloridaJudy Jun 2012 #59

Truth, plain and clear Whoa_Nelly Jun 2012 #63

All I can say is, the way you read that is not in anyway.. Little Star Jun 2012 #29

The statements in that screen shot are vile transphobia. yardwork Jun 2012 #30

yardwork that screen shot is out of context. Ask Neoma to provide the whole conversation... Little Star Jun 2012 #38

Yes, they are. Jamastiene Jun 2012 #69

I'm not pointing out seabeyond in that screen shot. Neoma Jun 2012 #33

Can I make a suggestion? Everyone needs to leave the past in the past... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #39

Thank you and I agree. DURHAM D Jun 2012 #41

+1,000,000 Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #43

I'm where you are at! Little Star Jun 2012 #49

I'm getting the distinct impression that's not the view of some who've posted... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #58

The F and F&D groups seem to have done pretty well at getting feminism polly7 Jun 2012 #61

And HoF hasn't? That's news to me... Violet_Crumble Jun 2012 #71

IMHO there's just a bit of exorcising demons happening right now Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #79

Well said! yardwork Jun 2012 #83

You did a great job. RobertBlue Jun 2012 #42

I think rrneck Jun 2012 #116

When you chase someone into libodem Jun 2012 #50

I understand where you're coming from on this Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #13

That is really not necessary kdmorris Jun 2012 #34

Well, my mind has now been made up. Texasgal Jun 2012 #44

Here's a proces that should work quite well. laconicsax Jun 2012 #11

That is a good general process Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #77

My thoughts on that are to not worry about it. laconicsax Jun 2012 #78

I am just remembering the last time this group decided Ms. Toad Jun 2012 #80

That's a good point. We should start thinking about details. Whisp Jun 2012 #91

Thanks Neoma! n/t zappaman Jun 2012 #14

I haven't posted here much but read faithfully, Neoma polly7 Jun 2012 #15

Thank you Neoma! Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #17

+1 Jamastiene Jun 2012 #54

Sincerely appreciate all of the transistion hosts service kdmorris Jun 2012 #19

Great job Neoma! Marcel Jun 2012 #36

We need to continue talking about how to hold the election. yardwork Jun 2012 #65

Are you trying to unofficially merge the feminist forum with HOF? And if so, why? Lars39 Jun 2012 #66

The merger under consideration is not with HoF. Old and In the Way Jun 2012 #68

That was my understanding also until tonight Lars39 Jun 2012 #70

Anyuture merger will be between FG and FD obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #73

I can see why you have questions, given the way that this thread has gone. yardwork Jun 2012 #72

I think the forum will be in very capable hands with you hosting it, yardwork. Old and In the Way Jun 2012 #74

maddezmom has kindly agreed to serve as an interim co-host yardwork Jun 2012 #75

I support that. kdmorris Jun 2012 #93

And we have more! See downthread a bit. yardwork Jun 2012 #94

See what happens when I try to post from the top down? kdmorris Jun 2012 #96

Thanks maddezmom Jun 2012 #104

I trust yardwork's sincerity on the subject of healing DU. ZombieHorde Jun 2012 #82

Wow. Thank you very much. yardwork Jun 2012 #84

Cheers to a job well done, Neoma! Old and In the Way Jun 2012 #67

I want to throw in with Old and In The Way. Nice job. Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2012 #76

Let me throw in too--Neoma, you are a stellar human being. MADem Jun 2012 #85

Maddezmom, Gormy Cuss, Obamanut2012, and Starry Messenger are interim co-hosts! yardwork Jun 2012 #81

can I make a small suggestion for those who will be nominating themselves? Whisp Jun 2012 #86

Great idea! A position statement on their experience, and their vision for the group, etc. yardwork Jun 2012 #88

yay! nice line up. Whisp Jun 2012 #87

Thank you for helping to make it happen. yardwork Jun 2012 #89

Good plan yardwork, and I like Whisp's idea too. Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #90

+1 obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #92

All wonderful choices kdmorris Jun 2012 #95

I agree, and a little bit of praise (in fact a lot of praise) is very welcome here. yardwork Jun 2012 #97

I've always wanted a sycophant obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #99

Damn... can one be a sycophant kdmorris Jun 2012 #102

Damn straight I'm jealous! laconicsax Jun 2012 #103

Come to think of it kdmorris Jun 2012 #105

Hmm...I'll have to review your HR file. laconicsax Jun 2012 #110

How about a lackey??? obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #106

hmmmm that sounds more like kdmorris Jun 2012 #107

Lickspittle!!!!! kdmorris Jun 2012 #108

Oh, that's my favorite!!! obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #109

Sounds like a fantastic slate to me. stevenleser Jun 2012 #113

I thought so too - great line up of folks. nt TBF Jun 2012 #115

sounds like a good plan OKNancy Jun 2012 #98

+1 obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #100

Well done Neoma! Vanje Jun 2012 #101

For you, Neoma, from the LGBT Group... Zorra Jun 2012 #111

Tulips are my favorites. Neoma Jun 2012 #112

They're lovely, aren't they? Zorra Jun 2012 #117

Thank you Neoma! tammywammy Jun 2012 #114

Great Job Neoma NCTraveler Jun 2012 #118