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slightlv

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19. Love your last sentence! :)
Sat Oct 5, 2024, 03:58 PM
Oct 5

One of the main areas we're having problems with is doctors, of all things! His long-time doc retired. Then the one he chose to replace her retired. Right now, we're between docs. I know we'd have a better chance in KC, but we're here in LV and I don't drive so well anymore (and smart enough to know when I can white-knuckle it and when I can't). My long-time doc is in Lenexa, and I'm making noises to hubby to just go to her. She and I have a good relationship, and I trust her and her referrals. She helped me a lot with my Mom before Mom went over the edge. I know there's medication out there that can probably help him. What's gone, memory-wise, is not going to come back. I'm realistic enough to know that. And I know any referrals will be in KC. But she also knows my driving issues, and can help by hopefully finding someone who has a visiting office here. I'm also taking charge of his Medicare Advantage choices this year, because I wasn't very happy with the one he had this passing year. which reminds me, it's time to ring up my broker. I'm expecting higher prices this year, because I've seen so many messages on the board talking about it. At this time in my life, I couldn't live without my todo lists!

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How do I get through this? [View all] slightlv Oct 4 OP
perhaps if you shared your general location there might be more response nt msongs Oct 5 #1
Wishing you all well TommyT139 Oct 5 #2
Thanks! I'd already planned to do some research, you gave me a place to start! n/t slightlv Oct 5 #13
When my late DH started becoming confused due to Parkinson's, he did marybourg Oct 5 #3
I hate to go to those lengths, but I'm holding them in my slightlv Oct 5 #14
1+ keithbvadu2 Oct 5 #4
I don't really have anything helpful to say except I'm so sorry you are going through this. HeartsCanHope Oct 5 #5
Change the password to your checking and savings accounts. Tess49 Oct 5 #6
Actually, you and I think a lot alike. slightlv Oct 5 #15
I understand your concerns about auto pay. My auto pays are for my utilities, and are posted on the due date of the bill Tess49 Oct 5 #22
If you can't depend on when your autopays get deducted, you PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 15 #26
At first TommyT139 Oct 5 #21
Sending you love BrianTheEVGuy Oct 5 #7
The one hubby gotten taken in by has claimed a LOT of people here in the Midwest. slightlv Oct 5 #16
At least you can vent here. calimary Oct 5 #8
Thank you, calimary. slightlv Oct 5 #17
Oh man... calimary Oct 6 #24
Thank you.. slightlv Oct 6 #25
In early stages Alzheimer's, my hubby gave permission... SleeplessinSoCal Oct 5 #9
We've already done the CT scan. That's why I know it's "normal" aging. slightlv Oct 5 #18
My David secretly told the neurologist about his concerns. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 5 #23
Based on personal experience Lulu KC Oct 5 #10
Love your last sentence! :) slightlv Oct 5 #19
If you haven't already, it might be time to look into laws/process for conservatoryship Attilatheblond Oct 5 #11
We can be sure that we're not sissies! WhiteTara Oct 5 #12
Thank you for your thoughts, Tara. slightlv Oct 5 #20
Just your first two sentences PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 15 #27
Good for you! slightlv Oct 15 #28
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