One of the main areas we're having problems with is doctors, of all things! His long-time doc retired. Then the one he chose to replace her retired. Right now, we're between docs. I know we'd have a better chance in KC, but we're here in LV and I don't drive so well anymore (and smart enough to know when I can white-knuckle it and when I can't). My long-time doc is in Lenexa, and I'm making noises to hubby to just go to her. She and I have a good relationship, and I trust her and her referrals. She helped me a lot with my Mom before Mom went over the edge. I know there's medication out there that can probably help him. What's gone, memory-wise, is not going to come back. I'm realistic enough to know that. And I know any referrals will be in KC. But she also knows my driving issues, and can help by hopefully finding someone who has a visiting office here. I'm also taking charge of his Medicare Advantage choices this year, because I wasn't very happy with the one he had this passing year. which reminds me, it's time to ring up my broker. I'm expecting higher prices this year, because I've seen so many messages on the board talking about it. At this time in my life, I couldn't live without my todo lists!