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RoadRunner

(4,598 posts)
39. Thanks for a most thoughtful and important OP
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 08:20 PM
Nov 2018

Maybe the best I’ve ever seen on DU, and I’ve been around here from pretty much day one.

I’m a lot older than you, definitely not overweight, and still have my hair. I’m from deep east Texas, where racism was deeply imbedded in the culture. Even my parents were vocally racist, as were all my friends and some of the school teachers. I still to this very day get racist emails passed around by people from my high school class, even after I’ve asked them to stop.

I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I have learned a few lessons about racism.

Later on in my life, I earned a PhD from a very conservative Texas university and was recruited by a private university on the east coast. The kind of university that would have never have accepted me as a student but wanted me to teach there, go figure. I have never, even to this day, been able to shake my Texas drawl. Because of that, some of my fellow faculty I suppose just assumed I was racist. Soon after I met them they began the racist jokes and rants. These were people that would ultimately decide if I got tenure or not, but I said fuck it I’m not putting up with this shit anymore, career be damned. I took a stand and stood up to them. They actually respected that and later on made me associate dean of the graduate school. Lesson learned: stand up to racism, point it out and condemn it in a professional and civil way. The human heart always recognizes truth when it hears it.

While on my dean gig, I argued with faculty and administrators alike that we should accept more black students to our graduate school. It was a hard sell, they were afraid it would lower our average admission scores, the holy grail of graduate programs. I’ve always been pretty good at math so I convinced them by showing them the numbers. Lesson learned: facts matter. Even a hard hearted administrator cannot argue with truth.

Now that I’m old and worn out, but still have my hair, I moved to the mountains of northern New Mexico and built my little retirement home. I had help from several subcontractors, one of which began the racist bullshit as as he heard my Texas drawl. I’m pretty good at this by now so I fired his sorry ass on the spot. Lesson learned: money talks, don’t do business with racists.

So, I guess the big lesson is that while we can’t change our upbringing and the culture we were born in, we can change our actions and behavior. And maybe change some minds in the process.

Peace, brother.

Roadrunner





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I will counter your assertion, I am 65 old white guy and ALL my white friends are zero racists... beachbum bob Nov 2018 #1
I dunnno...fellow white dude, and while I'd agree that "all my friends" keep any racism to themself anarch Nov 2018 #2
91% sounds right to me...great post! Many within that 91% try very hard NOT to be Eliot Rosewater Nov 2018 #3
The OP and your post make me appreciate DU even more. brush Nov 2018 #51
I think that's a bit high, but I think it's still well over half Bradical79 Nov 2018 #4
Some very valid points better Nov 2018 #5
THIS is a GREAT point, never heard it like this before, thank you Eliot Rosewater Nov 2018 #8
My pleasure, and by all means, please feel free to spread without attribution. better Nov 2018 #9
You wil probably be more successful than I will, while i have the same goal and have talked about Eliot Rosewater Nov 2018 #11
For whatever it may be worth... better Nov 2018 #44
Thank you for this well said reply The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #13
And thank you, MSgt, for your well-said OP! better Nov 2018 #15
Thank you. I will be stealing your closing paragraph The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #16
Excellent points! BlueMTexpat Nov 2018 #41
Thank you The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #48
Sincerely, thank you for that. better Nov 2018 #50
I would put it higher, myself. TygrBright Nov 2018 #6
I once said in this group The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #14
One thing that might help that happen better Nov 2018 #17
Well said. N/t cate94 Nov 2018 #21
I'm a three score or so years old white woman... haele Nov 2018 #7
I'm going to back you up on this. But go a little further. violetpastille Nov 2018 #10
I'm really enjoying the intellectual tone of this discussion better Nov 2018 #12
I could have written this myself... Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #18
Recently was asked ... kooth Nov 2018 #19
As you show, the answer is always more complicated than the question. Sometimes it helps to get the ancianita Nov 2018 #20
K&R, bookmarked too. This is a great post. Thank you Sarge! yonder Nov 2018 #22
This presidency proves cate94 Nov 2018 #23
Thank you Msgt for holding up that mirror. alwaysinasnit Nov 2018 #24
An off branch of this: I think racism in cultures can be fluid. Let me explain and forgive my ramble dameatball Nov 2018 #25
I appreciate your reply The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #30
Regretfully, I spent about twenty minutes. I hope it made sense.Thanks for your OP. dameatball Nov 2018 #32
I agree 100%. Eko Nov 2018 #26
Wish i had a like or agree button for replies The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #29
One thing Dump has done Eko Nov 2018 #33
You need to do what you believe is best. The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #35
As much push-back as we tend to see over cutting trumper family members out of our lives better Nov 2018 #42
I would agree that it's at least 91% MaryMagdaline Nov 2018 #27
Thank you and I agree The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #49
Thank you SallyHemmings Nov 2018 #28
Thoughtful and honest mcar Nov 2018 #31
I appreciate everyone's honest and respectful input. The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #34
Dear Mr. The Polack MSgt, you remind me of this quote Kind of Blue Nov 2018 #36
I'm shamed by your praise The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #37
I want to repeat my tagline... Kind of Blue Nov 2018 #38
Respectfully, I think you mean humbled, not shamed. better Nov 2018 #43
I for one think this is a great idea. better Nov 2018 #57
Hey, better! Totally agree. Kind of Blue Nov 2018 #60
Thanks for a most thoughtful and important OP RoadRunner Nov 2018 #39
Thank you RoadRunner. The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #40
Some of us W guys, I dont like using the full word, risky to do so, are fully aware Eliot Rosewater Nov 2018 #53
It's a shame that we never got to serve together, Sarge MrScorpio Nov 2018 #45
We almost did on the ROK The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #46
You know that I could have extended again MrScorpio Nov 2018 #47
I want to take a little bit of a break from the heavier part of this conversaion better Nov 2018 #52
I was raised in a racist family prudence54 Nov 2018 #54
Welcome to DU! better Nov 2018 #55
Thanks for this response - I understand that family dynamic The Polack MSgt Nov 2018 #56
We are all racist to an extent TlalocW Nov 2018 #58
+1 violetpastille Nov 2018 #59
I agree ismnotwasm Nov 2018 #61
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