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drmeow

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14. I think it is very difficult to say
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 06:27 PM
Apr 2022

Full disclosure - I'm a white woman.

I think there was a lot of shock that prevented anyone from doing anything immediately - you just don't expect that and people don't know how to react.

I don't think Chris Rock would have said something like that about a white man's wife (I think that type of automatic self-censorship, especially in black men, is so ingrained it just would not have happened).

I think if Chris Rock had said he wanted Will Smith removed they would have. They asked him and he said "no" (at least that was my understanding).

I think if a white male star had slapped Chris Rock that it would have very much depended on the stature of the white star (how much power they were perceived to have in the academy and in the industry). The lower his status, the higher the likelihood of removal. However, I still think they would have asked Chris Rock.

I think that if a white man had slapped Chris Rock and they had removed him, his removal and an apology would have likely been enough without a 10 year ban but, again, the stature of the white man would have made a huge difference.

My take on the whole thing is basically that one male did a violent sexist thing to another male in response to a violent sexist thing the other male had done. I don't think the academy gives a f**k about women and especially about black women/WOC and had Will Smith merely yelled at Chris Rock from the sidelines they still would have slapped him on the wrist because saying shit about women is perfectly fine but disrupting their big narcissistic awards show is a big no-no.

Finally, I think DU is like the real world - there are racists and misogynists in the Democratic party and they are here, too. There are less of them than in the country on average and exponentially less of them than on the right but they are here, never-the-less.

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Ok, so this is my first post on DU [View all] BWdem4life Apr 2022 OP
Smith probably wouldn't show his face anyway, but I agree with you. Hoyt Apr 2022 #1
Welcome to DU and not gonna touch that. CurtEastPoint Apr 2022 #2
Welcome to DU. elleng Apr 2022 #3
Welcome to DU! secondwind Apr 2022 #4
Well, the Academy certainly has set a standard for this The Unmitigated Gall Apr 2022 #5
Nope. Male on male violence was totally acceptable. Phoenix61 Apr 2022 #6
Bet Will Smith and Chris Rock both wish they hadn't went there. brush Apr 2022 #7
I actually think that if a white star had slapped Chris Rock he would have been thrown out asap. femmedem Apr 2022 #8
;-{)🖖‍ Goonch Apr 2022 #9
Welcome to DU! ymetca Apr 2022 #10
In the mean time, 4 guys in Michigan won't multigraincracker Apr 2022 #11
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2022 #12
Welcome to DU! spicysista Apr 2022 #13
I think it is very difficult to say drmeow Apr 2022 #14
Welcome to DU! SallyHemmings Apr 2022 #15
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