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applegrove

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16. Use science to prove the transidential. Say that the loved ones atoms are now a part
Sat Apr 29, 2017, 05:29 PM
Apr 2017

of all sorts of other people, plants and fauna. And always will be.

This was what we read at my Mom's funeral:

“I thought the earth remembered me,
she took me back so tenderly,
arranging her dark skirts, her pockets
full of lichens and seeds.
I slept as never before, a stone on the river bed,
nothing between me and the white fire of the stars
but my thoughts, and they floated light as moths
among the branches of the perfect trees.
All night I heard the small kingdoms
breathing around me, the insects,
and the birds who do their work in the darkness.
All night I rose and fell, as if in water,
grappling with a luminous doom. By morning
I had vanished at least a dozen times
into something better.”


― Mary Oliver

http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/437994-i-thought-the-earth-remembered-me-she-took-me-back

How does one console [View all] sarisataka Apr 2017 OP
Saying you are sorry for their loss will do the trick. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #1
right on the money rurallib Apr 2017 #3
I would expect any person to feel loss sarisataka Apr 2017 #9
Thank you sarisataka Apr 2017 #5
Honestly, a simple statement that you're sorry for their PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #10
I am sorry for your loss sarisataka Apr 2017 #12
Thank you. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #14
I don't know about all Faux pas Apr 2017 #2
Thank you sarisataka Apr 2017 #6
For me it is the question erinlough Apr 2017 #4
Thank you sarisataka Apr 2017 #7
Yes, the best. elleng Apr 2017 #13
In addition to the above suggestions, progressoid Apr 2017 #8
Thank you sarisataka Apr 2017 #11
A reminder that with time the grief will lessen. PassingFair Apr 2017 #15
Thank you sarisataka May 2017 #18
Use science to prove the transidential. Say that the loved ones atoms are now a part applegrove Apr 2017 #16
Thank you sarisataka May 2017 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author Freelancer Apr 2017 #17
My own moral compass sarisataka May 2017 #20
Thanks to all for good, sarisataka May 2017 #21
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