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calimary

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9. Sure looked that way from Catholic school.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:45 AM
Oct 2022

But it also started me questioning things.

By the time I got to college, I started invading male territory - without even realizing it. Immediately noticed the big poster in the dorm cafeteria about the student radio station. Got curious, went and checked it out, and fell in head first. THIS was COOL!!! And I discovered I was pretty good at it. And there were very few girls interested in it or involved in it, so I was kinda “unique.”

By the time I got to junior year, I was the only girl with a “prime time shift” - the highly-coveted 9pm-midnight weeknight slot. Mine was Wednesday night, and I took requests. And it turned out to be a party show every week. Even within the station staff! Dear God in Heaven, that was FUN!

There developed a weekly routine: a couple of the guys hopped in their VW bug at about 6:30pm and headed up the freeway to Tommy’s in downtown L.A. for their renowned chili burgers. They’d order a couple dozen chili burgers and drive back down to campus and would arrive just as my show went on. It was really cool, looking through the studio window to the outer office and see it full of people, chowing down and partying, and I was providing the music! And they’d poke their heads into the studio and make requests! And by Jove I played ‘em, whether it came over phone calls from the dorms, elsewhere on campus, the local community, or even just the outer office. “Smoke on the Water” and “Stairway to Heaven” and more, every week! Some of the most fun I EVER had in my whole life with my clothes still on!

That’s about the time I started wondering if maybe this was something I could do to make a living. And I did. And - um - yes, with my clothes still on. Those sure were the days! SWEET GOD that was fun!!!!!

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That sucks. Sorry. 3Hotdogs Oct 2022 #1
Did you Rebl2 Oct 2022 #2
It took me awhile to stay away but now I'm in Arizona and happy. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #30
Good! Rebl2 Oct 2022 #33
By age 14 I understood the hypocrisy of it all. Turn my back and never went back ashredux Oct 2022 #3
I'm so sorry for your childhood experiences and how they have shaped your life. Lonestarblue Oct 2022 #4
Too much of organized religion is about keeping women under men's thumbs dlk Oct 2022 #5
Sure looked that way from Catholic school. calimary Oct 2022 #9
My major was Natural Resource Management, AnotherDreamWeaver Oct 2022 #28
You were ahead of the curve dlk Oct 2022 #29
Religion has traumatized so many people... I always wonder if they've harmed more than helped people LymphocyteLover Oct 2022 #6
If you look at it anthropologically, religion made socialization possible among disparate groups. TigressDem Oct 2022 #26
I agree pamdb Oct 2022 #7
I agree too! mgardener Oct 2022 #22
Religion is like anything else in life William769 Oct 2022 #8
HOW MANY INNOCENT people have died because of religion? I say a least tax the churches. usaf-vet Oct 2022 #10
+1 Ferrets are Cool Oct 2022 #11
Read my sig line.nt Javaman Oct 2022 #12
Of real justice: lambchopp59 Oct 2022 #13
You're not alone! Had your church and family understood, taught and modeled the real Karadeniz Oct 2022 #14
I won't defend the 'religion' aspect stopdiggin Oct 2022 #15
They look up to his memory. But they carry their own issues that stems from him. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #31
Plus you haven't touched the damage from religious hatred, murder, war, ignorance, oppression, ...nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2022 #16
Likewise, as to the thinking about that... Backseat Driver Oct 2022 #17
I think we have all read stories like yours RussBLib Oct 2022 #18
I'm sorry! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #19
I grew up in the Episcopal Church, but concluded at age 10 vlyons Oct 2022 #24
Agreed! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #27
I hear you, and agree wholeheartedly. NullTuples Oct 2022 #20
So sorry to read this. SergeStorms Oct 2022 #21
Add that my father was a Baptist minister from a family of ministers.... Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #32
Oh damn, so you had family history.... SergeStorms Oct 2022 #34
It's terrible when abusers use religion to white wash and justify abuse. TigressDem Oct 2022 #23
You pretty much wrote my paternal grandmother's biography there Warpy Oct 2022 #25
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