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RussBLib

(9,726 posts)
18. I think we have all read stories like yours
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:22 AM
Oct 2022

Books, movies, plays....the documentation is overwhelming on the psychic harm done by religion. Sure, some people "thrive" in it, despite the handcuffs that are a part of the package. Forcing people to behave by archaic "rules" is so unjust and cruel. As if this is the only way to raise children! The peer pressure from "church folk" can be intense and oppressive, but they are foisting unproven bullshit on others. All based on an imaginary god that everyone and his brother interprets in their own fucking way anyway. What a mess.

I read recently that the "full Bible" has been translated into over 700 languages. The New Testament has been translated into an additional 1,500 languages! I didn't know there were that many languages! Isn't this awesome? Spreading bullshit far and wide, to every corner of the world! Lay on the guilt, baby.

It makes me sad to hear stories like yours. So much suppression of children, so much squandered potential at the hands of so many religious parents, not to mention sexual assault rather rampant in more than one "branch" of this poisoned tree. I hope this didn't happen to you. After all, there is quite a lot of sex in the Bible. And again, sure, not every religious person is going to sexually assault someone, but I'll bet enlightened parents do it far less frequently than brainwashed believers.

I was pretty fortunate. My parents made me go to Sunday School only until I was 7. I hated it and it didn't make any sense. The only pressure I felt to attend Sunday morning services was that a quick drive to Dallas to watch the Cowboys play football in the Cotton Bowl was the lure to get me to go.

"Tell you what, son, we go to Sunday church services Sunday morning and we'll drive to Dallas to watch the Cowboys play afterward!"
"Ok, Daddy, let's go!" My big brother would tag along, but my 2 older sisters were not interested in football. Or religion.

That, and the annual gathering around the piano to sing some Christmas Carols (mostly religious garbage) was about as far as my parents pushed us 4 kids towards religion. I am forever grateful to them for their parenting.

Congratulations to you for shedding that stifling cocoon. So many are still lost in the haze.






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That sucks. Sorry. 3Hotdogs Oct 2022 #1
Did you Rebl2 Oct 2022 #2
It took me awhile to stay away but now I'm in Arizona and happy. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #30
Good! Rebl2 Oct 2022 #33
By age 14 I understood the hypocrisy of it all. Turn my back and never went back ashredux Oct 2022 #3
I'm so sorry for your childhood experiences and how they have shaped your life. Lonestarblue Oct 2022 #4
Too much of organized religion is about keeping women under men's thumbs dlk Oct 2022 #5
Sure looked that way from Catholic school. calimary Oct 2022 #9
My major was Natural Resource Management, AnotherDreamWeaver Oct 2022 #28
You were ahead of the curve dlk Oct 2022 #29
Religion has traumatized so many people... I always wonder if they've harmed more than helped people LymphocyteLover Oct 2022 #6
If you look at it anthropologically, religion made socialization possible among disparate groups. TigressDem Oct 2022 #26
I agree pamdb Oct 2022 #7
I agree too! mgardener Oct 2022 #22
Religion is like anything else in life William769 Oct 2022 #8
HOW MANY INNOCENT people have died because of religion? I say a least tax the churches. usaf-vet Oct 2022 #10
+1 Ferrets are Cool Oct 2022 #11
Read my sig line.nt Javaman Oct 2022 #12
Of real justice: lambchopp59 Oct 2022 #13
You're not alone! Had your church and family understood, taught and modeled the real Karadeniz Oct 2022 #14
I won't defend the 'religion' aspect stopdiggin Oct 2022 #15
They look up to his memory. But they carry their own issues that stems from him. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #31
Plus you haven't touched the damage from religious hatred, murder, war, ignorance, oppression, ...nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2022 #16
Likewise, as to the thinking about that... Backseat Driver Oct 2022 #17
I think we have all read stories like yours RussBLib Oct 2022 #18
I'm sorry! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #19
I grew up in the Episcopal Church, but concluded at age 10 vlyons Oct 2022 #24
Agreed! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #27
I hear you, and agree wholeheartedly. NullTuples Oct 2022 #20
So sorry to read this. SergeStorms Oct 2022 #21
Add that my father was a Baptist minister from a family of ministers.... Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #32
Oh damn, so you had family history.... SergeStorms Oct 2022 #34
It's terrible when abusers use religion to white wash and justify abuse. TigressDem Oct 2022 #23
You pretty much wrote my paternal grandmother's biography there Warpy Oct 2022 #25
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