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vlyons

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24. I grew up in the Episcopal Church, but concluded at age 10
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:03 PM
Oct 2022

that there was no God. I am now a Buddhist, which is not a religion, but a practice of training the mind to not be at the effect of negative emotions and illogical beliefs. There is no creator God, no invisible sky god, who waves a magic wand to over-ride the laws of physics and make time flow backwards. There is no physical place of heaven and hell. There was no resurrection, because a 3 day old corpse does not get up and start walking around. All those beliefs are relics of prehistoric peoples before the discoveries of science. Imposing and enforcing religious beliefs and controlling people through fear and punishment is sick. Buddhism does not proselytize or try to convert people. Most Westerners come to Buddhism through their own open-minded curiosity and desire to learn something new.

Having said all of the above, I find value in the teachings of Jesus about practicing peace, forgiveness, generosity, patience, non-judgement, compassion, and loving kindness. To rise above greed, anger, and delusions and to practice ethical morality are the path to true happiness. All sentient beings want to be happy and to not suffer. The most important thing for each of is to just be a good person with a kind and loving heart.

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That sucks. Sorry. 3Hotdogs Oct 2022 #1
Did you Rebl2 Oct 2022 #2
It took me awhile to stay away but now I'm in Arizona and happy. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #30
Good! Rebl2 Oct 2022 #33
By age 14 I understood the hypocrisy of it all. Turn my back and never went back ashredux Oct 2022 #3
I'm so sorry for your childhood experiences and how they have shaped your life. Lonestarblue Oct 2022 #4
Too much of organized religion is about keeping women under men's thumbs dlk Oct 2022 #5
Sure looked that way from Catholic school. calimary Oct 2022 #9
My major was Natural Resource Management, AnotherDreamWeaver Oct 2022 #28
You were ahead of the curve dlk Oct 2022 #29
Religion has traumatized so many people... I always wonder if they've harmed more than helped people LymphocyteLover Oct 2022 #6
If you look at it anthropologically, religion made socialization possible among disparate groups. TigressDem Oct 2022 #26
I agree pamdb Oct 2022 #7
I agree too! mgardener Oct 2022 #22
Religion is like anything else in life William769 Oct 2022 #8
HOW MANY INNOCENT people have died because of religion? I say a least tax the churches. usaf-vet Oct 2022 #10
+1 Ferrets are Cool Oct 2022 #11
Read my sig line.nt Javaman Oct 2022 #12
Of real justice: lambchopp59 Oct 2022 #13
You're not alone! Had your church and family understood, taught and modeled the real Karadeniz Oct 2022 #14
I won't defend the 'religion' aspect stopdiggin Oct 2022 #15
They look up to his memory. But they carry their own issues that stems from him. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #31
Plus you haven't touched the damage from religious hatred, murder, war, ignorance, oppression, ...nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2022 #16
Likewise, as to the thinking about that... Backseat Driver Oct 2022 #17
I think we have all read stories like yours RussBLib Oct 2022 #18
I'm sorry! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #19
I grew up in the Episcopal Church, but concluded at age 10 vlyons Oct 2022 #24
Agreed! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #27
I hear you, and agree wholeheartedly. NullTuples Oct 2022 #20
So sorry to read this. SergeStorms Oct 2022 #21
Add that my father was a Baptist minister from a family of ministers.... Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2022 #32
Oh damn, so you had family history.... SergeStorms Oct 2022 #34
It's terrible when abusers use religion to white wash and justify abuse. TigressDem Oct 2022 #23
You pretty much wrote my paternal grandmother's biography there Warpy Oct 2022 #25
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