Bereavement

sinkingfeeling

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185. Did you not notice what forum this was posted in? I have been a member of DU

Wed Apr 19, 2017, 01:48 PM

Apr 2017

for a long period of time and feel like sharing with these people is like speaking to my friends. My son is over 500 miles from me and he and my granddaughter are my only remaining 'real family'.

I don't curl up in corners. I needed to share this event.

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My sister committed suicide today. I'm the one who.found her and [View all] sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 OP

So very sorry for your loss. Dakotacrat Apr 2017 #1

So sorry for both you and for her. The grief and sorrow of losing a spouse can be overwhelming. SharonAnn Apr 2017 #126

No Words Me. Apr 2017 #2

That is sad Break time Apr 2017 #3

I am so sorry for you Hokie Apr 2017 #4

I am so very sorry for your loss. femmedem Apr 2017 #5

I'm so sorry elehhhhna Apr 2017 #6

so sorry kanda Apr 2017 #7

Oh my God I'm so sorry sharp_stick Apr 2017 #8

I am so sorry for your loss . Sibling stuff can be very hard... bettyellen Apr 2017 #9

I am so sorry for your loss sinkingfeeling. May the good memories livetohike Apr 2017 #10

I am so sorry KT2000 Apr 2017 #11

I am so sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Apr 2017 #12

I can't even imagine the pain you're feeling... Docreed2003 Apr 2017 #13

Oh you must have so much going through your head and heart right now. lunasun Apr 2017 #14

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Laffy Kat Apr 2017 #15

Really sorry for your loss. What you went through is so traumatic. I hope you have someone to still_one Apr 2017 #16

There are no words adequate to convey my sadness reading your post... hlthe2b Apr 2017 #17

I've lost several friends to suicide OceanChick Apr 2017 #18

Our local Hospice was a great help to my daughter and her 5 year old son when the baby died of SIDS Hekate Apr 2017 #66

I am so terribly sorry, sf. I want to add my support for Ocean's suggestion. BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #181

So very sorry! Snarkoleptic Apr 2017 #19

How very sad. madaboutharry Apr 2017 #20

Condolences to you -- and I'm so sorry that you were the one who found her. spooky3 Apr 2017 #21

I am so, so sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #22

I am sorry for your loss. nt Gore1FL Apr 2017 #23

Oh, my dear, that babylonsister Apr 2017 #24

I'm very sorry for your loss. Ilsa Apr 2017 #25

My heart goes out to you... Jack-o-Lantern Apr 2017 #26

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I cant imagine the horror williesgirl Apr 2017 #27

Thinking of you MFM008 Apr 2017 #28

I am so very sorry for your loss. SaveOurDemocracy Apr 2017 #29

There are no words... lapucelle Apr 2017 #30

My brother did it in 2010. It just crushed my Mom, who died in 2015. Chasstev365 Apr 2017 #31

So sorry!! All of us are here for you. n/t Tess49 Apr 2017 #32

I am very sorry. teezy Apr 2017 #33

I am so sorry this has happened. CousinIT Apr 2017 #34

I'm so very sorry ailsagirl Apr 2017 #35

I am so sorry AwakeAtLast Apr 2017 #36

I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Apr 2017 #37

I don't even know what to say except I'm so sorry. Hang in there. OregonBlue Apr 2017 #38

Oh dear! 2naSalit Apr 2017 #39

So very very sorry. 50 Shades Of Blue Apr 2017 #40

My dad hanged himself in 1973- This won't go away. Please find a group, a therapist, a clergy-person NBachers Apr 2017 #41

Sorry you had to experience a terrific loss this way. grantcart Apr 2017 #108

.. Cha Apr 2017 #42

My condolences for your loss. We never know how a person will handle the loss of a spouse. Frustratedlady Apr 2017 #43

I feel so sorry for you. It's a shame people who are depressed Lint Head Apr 2017 #44

I am very sorry shenmue Apr 2017 #45

I'm so so very sorry..... onecaliberal Apr 2017 #46

I am in tears ... NanceGreggs Apr 2017 #47

I was there too TrogL Apr 2017 #142

I am so sorry for your loss. NanceGreggs Apr 2017 #215

I'm so sorry. Greybnk48 Apr 2017 #48

I'm so sorry for your loss. MelissaB Apr 2017 #49

I'm so sorry. cate94 Apr 2017 #50

... FailureToCommunicate Apr 2017 #51

Words cannot express. . my Heart aches for You. furtheradu Apr 2017 #52

My mom did the same thing ten months after my father died. She was 78. I found her. notdarkyet Apr 2017 #53

I'm very sorry for your loss and pain luvMIdog Apr 2017 #54

So sorry. SleeplessinSoCal Apr 2017 #55

Thank you all. The worse to me was that she was a trained social worker, but I couldn't get her to sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 #56

People in the helping professions have a high suicide rate. missingthebigdog Apr 2017 #95

I am so sorry. My brother is in the hospital after a AJT Apr 2017 #57

I am so sorry :( meadowlark5 Apr 2017 #58

My sister did the same last November Xipe Totec Apr 2017 #59

My condolences on the loss of your sister. gademocrat7 Apr 2017 #60

How awful for you. I'm so very sorry for your staggering loss. Hekate Apr 2017 #61

That's terrible, so sorry for your loss hibbing Apr 2017 #62

Deep compassion Equinox Moon Apr 2017 #63

I'm sorry for your loss, but I have thought about doing the same thing rather than having my loved mia Apr 2017 #64

I am so sorry. redwitch Apr 2017 #65

I'm sorry for your loss and I'm even more sorry that you were the one who found her... TheDebbieDee Apr 2017 #67

I am so sorry. Glimmer of Hope Apr 2017 #68

Oh my goodness, you and the family are in my prayers. iluvtennis Apr 2017 #69

I'm so sorry Danmel Apr 2017 #70

I am so sorry Frances Apr 2017 #71

I too am so sorry, Hamlette Apr 2017 #72

So sorry for your loss. amerikat Apr 2017 #73

I'm so sorry for your loss. beveeheart Apr 2017 #74

Please accept my sincere sympathy for your loss. The human spirit endures. Enoki33 Apr 2017 #75

No words Omaha Steve Apr 2017 #76

How very sad for you both. 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #77

Your anger is normal. brer cat Apr 2017 #78

I am so sorry for your loss. (eom) StevieM Apr 2017 #79

Very sorry for your loss Denis 11 Apr 2017 #80

Sorry to hear that......... Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2017 #81

My sincerest condolences to you and your family ornotna Apr 2017 #82

So sorry😞 we can do it Apr 2017 #83

I am so very sorry. CBHagman Apr 2017 #84

I am so sorry for your loss sinkingfeeling ... Greywing Apr 2017 #85

I am so so sorry irisblue Apr 2017 #86

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Depression is so rough kysrsoze Apr 2017 #87

I am so sorry for your loss... I have had several very, very close friends that committed suicide... Raster Apr 2017 #88

Prayers and Hayduke Bomgarte Apr 2017 #89

I am thinking of you BadgerMom Apr 2017 #90

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family - PAMod Apr 2017 #91

I'm so sorry, sinkingfeeling fishwax Apr 2017 #92

Understand your feelings. orangecrush Apr 2017 #93

I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Doreen Apr 2017 #94

I am so sorry. murielm99 Apr 2017 #96

I'm so sorry for your loss. YOHABLO Apr 2017 #97

So sorry, be well randr Apr 2017 #98

I'm very so sorry for your loss BainsBane Apr 2017 #99

I am sorry for the pain you must feel. LisaM Apr 2017 #100

Adding my prayers and thoughts tavernier Apr 2017 #101

There are no words to express chillfactor Apr 2017 #102

Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences. colorado_ufo Apr 2017 #103

My profound condolences to you and family. kairos12 Apr 2017 #104

I'm so sorry. DesertRat Apr 2017 #105

That's rough duty. Very rough. Strength and honor. WheelWalker Apr 2017 #106

I have been there too, my sister tried 5 years ago ... RainCaster Apr 2017 #107

So sorry for you :( Anger is normal. sharedvalues Apr 2017 #109

How terrible. I'm deeply sorry. nolabear Apr 2017 #110

Oh, God. I am so sorry. My deepest condolence. nt jrthin Apr 2017 #111

I'm sorry. Please accept my prayers and condolences. Lyricalinklines Apr 2017 #112

First, condolences Algernon Moncrieff Apr 2017 #113

I'm very sorry for your loss. EllieBC Apr 2017 #114

I'm so sorry LeftInTX Apr 2017 #115

This is devastating. So very, very sorry. EOM elfin Apr 2017 #116

it's not you, it was her certainot Apr 2017 #117

I am so very sorry. susanna Apr 2017 #118

I'm very sorry as well. It is very hard to lose someone you love. PatrickforO Apr 2017 #119

I am very sorry for your terrible loss. Old Crow Apr 2017 #120

I'm sending compassion and strength to you in your time of sorrow. democrank Apr 2017 #121

Message deleted by DU the Administrators BarbaRosa Apr 2017 #122

I am so so sorry. I hope you can find a peace that passes understanding Maraya1969 Apr 2017 #123

I'm very sorry to hear that. SomethingNew Apr 2017 #124

I'm so sorry. TDale313 Apr 2017 #125

I'm so very sorry janterry Apr 2017 #127

I am so very sorry for your loss. WomenRising2017 Apr 2017 #128

There truly are no words... just hoping you find peace. InAbLuEsTaTe Apr 2017 #129

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers TeamPooka Apr 2017 #130

I am so sorry for your loss. CanonRay Apr 2017 #131

Oh sf. MontanaMama Apr 2017 #132

I'm sorry Afromania Apr 2017 #133

that is heartbreaking. orleans Apr 2017 #134

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. pdxflyboy Apr 2017 #135

Sometimes that is the best option for a person and it is not an easy decision, I KNOW TOO! BigmanPigman Apr 2017 #136

This Is Sooo RobinA Apr 2017 #177

I am so very sorry, sinkingfeeling. pnwmom Apr 2017 #137

So, so sorry for your loss Samantha Apr 2017 #138

... defacto7 Apr 2017 #139

So heartbreaking, sinkingfeeling. Granny M Apr 2017 #140

What a terrible thing lillypaddle Apr 2017 #141

I'm so sorry. area51 Apr 2017 #143

:( sakabatou Apr 2017 #144

I am so sorry for your loss. barbtries Apr 2017 #145

I am so very sorry for your loss TxDemChem Apr 2017 #146

There are no words. anniebelle Apr 2017 #147

(((hugs)), don't know what to say. sueh Apr 2017 #148

My deepest sympathies.... flygal Apr 2017 #149

Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Apr 2017 #150

OMG DinahMoeHum Apr 2017 #151

I am so sorry for your loss. But she obviously couldnt caroldansen Apr 2017 #152

So sorry for you. N_E_1 for Tennis Apr 2017 #153

I'm very sorry. Please find someone to talk to about it. Nitram Apr 2017 #154

Deepest sympathies. Scarsdale Apr 2017 #155

So very sorry redstateblues Apr 2017 #156

Ahhh shit friend retrowire Apr 2017 #157

Sorry for your loss. Paladin Apr 2017 #158

So sorry DownriverDem Apr 2017 #159

I'm so sorry Fresh_Start Apr 2017 #160

My condolences for your loss krakfiend Apr 2017 #161

This made me cry---so sorry panader0 Apr 2017 #162

I'm so very sad for you amuse bouche Apr 2017 #163

Sorry harun Apr 2017 #164

To echo what everyone else has said, I can't imagine tour loss Victor_c3 Apr 2017 #165

My condolences and prayers left-of-center2012 Apr 2017 #166

I am so sorry for your loss! LongTomH Apr 2017 #167

My deepest sympathy (((hug))) Arazi Apr 2017 #168

OMG! I'm so sorry sdfernando Apr 2017 #169

I'm so sorry for your loss kimbutgar Apr 2017 #170

Aw, I'm so sorry to hear this, sinkingfeeling. calimary Apr 2017 #171

(((((((((((sf)))))) so very, very sorry for your devastating loss. as others have said, niyad Apr 2017 #172

I am so sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Apr 2017 #173

So sorry for your loss. mithnanthy Apr 2017 #174

How terrible wryter2000 Apr 2017 #175

So sorry for your loss pandr32 Apr 2017 #176

Sorry for your loss Stuart G Apr 2017 #178

Heat JeaneRaye Apr 2017 #179

Did you not notice what forum this was posted in? I have been a member of DU sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 #185

everyone processes grief differently n/t deek Apr 2017 #192

It's obvious to me that this group isn't for you. We are a SUPPORT group not a tearing down group. auntAgonist Apr 2017 #216

I hope all of our replies give you some bit of comfort. bitterross Apr 2017 #180

My sympathies Fatemah2774 Apr 2017 #182

I am so very sorry for you... Useless in FL Apr 2017 #183

My deepest sympathies for your loss. ATL Ebony Apr 2017 #184

So sorry you have to experience such anguish and grief. Wishing you moments of peace JudyM Apr 2017 #186

Hugs to you, your son and your daughter lunatica Apr 2017 #187

Dear God Highway61 Apr 2017 #188

Wishing you comfort and strength BadGimp Apr 2017 #189

So very sorry ... Mme. Defarge Apr 2017 #190

So sorry for your loss deek Apr 2017 #191

Yea... Understand completely. busterbrown Apr 2017 #193

more than one life torn asunder oldcynic Apr 2017 #194

My sister committed suicide today. I'm the one who.found her and dembat Apr 2017 #195

I cannot possibly comprehend your loss ..but my deepest condolences are with you. Le Gaucher Apr 2017 #196

I'm so sorry Nwgirl503 Apr 2017 #197

She must have really suffered! Stellar Apr 2017 #198

Im so sorry for your loss. You have my condolences SummerSnow Apr 2017 #199

I'm so sorry Sienna86 Apr 2017 #200

Oh No! I am so sorry for this loss and WhiteTara Apr 2017 #201

I'm so sorry. nt raccoon Apr 2017 #202

I am so sorry. Worried senior Apr 2017 #203

So sorry oldtime dfl_er Apr 2017 #204

So very very sorry joeybee12 Apr 2017 #205

My deepest sympathy for you and your family. progressoid Apr 2017 #206

I so very sorry your sister lost lexington filly Apr 2017 #207

It's hard to lose a sister, but this way was brutal. Paka Apr 2017 #208

Sorry LiberalBrooke Apr 2017 #209

I'm so sorry for everything you and your family are going through tibbir Apr 2017 #210

I'm so sorry.. mountain grammy Apr 2017 #211

Tears shared. raven mad Apr 2017 #212

sinkingfeeling, please accept my sincerest condolences... ClusterFreak Apr 2017 #213

I am so sorry for your loss. nycbos Apr 2017 #214

I cannot begin to imagine your pain at this time. I hope you can find some comfort here auntAgonist Apr 2017 #217

Thank yoy. I'm doing pretty good so far. sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 #218