Bereavement

barbtries

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2. thank you niyad.

Thu Jul 6, 2023, 08:59 AM

Jul 2023

I can't stop speculating about where she'd be now. Probably have teenagers already.

July is not my best month. It's always a little bit crazy, and these days complicated by the actual, general craziness of the time. the degradation of my country. y'know?

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She isn't 43 years old today. [View all] barbtries Jul 2023 OP

Hugggggggs. There are no words, but know that we are here for you. niyad Jul 2023 #1

thank you niyad. barbtries Jul 2023 #2

The general craziness has me even more short-tempered than normal, so niyad Jul 2023 #6

A beautiful tribute. I'm sorry for your pain. NNadir Jul 2023 #3

Thank you NNadir barbtries Jul 2023 #4

My heart goes out to you. badhair77 Jul 2023 #5

thank you badhair77 barbtries Jul 2023 #10

Time with your furry friend is usually a gift. 💕 badhair77 Jul 2023 #49

I am so so sorry for your great loss irisblue Jul 2023 #7

thank you irisblue! barbtries Jul 2023 #11

I have known personal grief TNNurse Jul 2023 #8

thank you TNNurse. barbtries Jul 2023 #12

Some losses we never get over. When they are young and have the whole world ahead of them, flying_wahini Jul 2023 #9

thank you flying wahini barbtries Jul 2023 #14

She was so pretty, very renaissance look to her. flying_wahini Jul 2023 #13

she would have loved that. barbtries Jul 2023 #16

I'm so sorry for your broken heart. 1WorldHope Jul 2023 #15

1WorldHope, barbtries Jul 2023 #17

It is my secret terror. It is wrong and should never happen. 1WorldHope Jul 2023 #19

Every time I see one of your posts, regardless of... 3catwoman3 Jul 2023 #18

thank you 3catwoman3 barbtries Jul 2023 #26

Such a beautiful and poignant tribute. calimary Jul 2023 #20

Thank you Calimary. barbtries Jul 2023 #28

So very sorry, barbtries gademocrat7 Jul 2023 #21

thank you gademocrat7! barbtries Jul 2023 #30

I am so, so sorry. mgardener Jul 2023 #22

... Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #24

oh mgardener barbtries Jul 2023 #31

Sending gentle, comforting vibes to hug you. MLAA Jul 2023 #23

Thank you MLAA barbtries Jul 2023 #51

What heartache to lose a child, so loved and beautiful in heart and spirit. Fla Dem Jul 2023 #25

Thank you Fla Dem barbtries Jul 2023 #52

Iam Very sorry for what you have had to go through. I send you hugs and all my love . Naio Jul 2023 #27

Thank you Naio barbtries Jul 2023 #53

So sorry for your loss Barb. I can't imagine. This is a lovely tribute. Thank you Evolve Dammit Jul 2023 #29

thank you Evolve Dammit! barbtries Jul 2023 #66

If only... Evolve Dammit Jul 2023 #68

yeah. barbtries Jul 2023 #74

Hear ya. They want us back to the dark ages feudal system. Take care and hope you're "ok." Evolve Dammit Jul 2023 #100

Aw, she was precious wendyb-NC Jul 2023 #32

thank you wendyb-NC barbtries Jul 2023 #54

Hi Barb wendyb-NC Jul 2023 #61

I am so sorry. What a beautiful young lady. Gone much too soon but still here as long as those LoisB Jul 2023 #33

thank you LoisB barbtries Jul 2023 #55

You look just like her. You get to see her every time you see your reflection. You're being ... marble falls Jul 2023 #34

thank you marble falls barbtries Jul 2023 #56

I searched for words that might soothe Jarqui Jul 2023 #35

Thank you Jarqui. barbtries Jul 2023 #58

38 years ago, I lost my best friend to alcohol Jarqui Jul 2023 #70

you're doing good work Jarqui barbtries Jul 2023 #75

I do individual cases Jarqui Jul 2023 #92

I am so sorry. pandr32 Jul 2023 #36

thank you pandr32! barbtries Jul 2023 #60

Your love for her radiates from the screen Wild blueberry Jul 2023 #37

Thank you Wild blueberry barbtries Jul 2023 #62

Rebekah-Marie was a beautiful young woman. riverbendviewgal Jul 2023 #38

riverbendviewgal barbtries Jul 2023 #72

There is no greater pain than losing a child. Grumpy Old Guy Jul 2023 #39

thank you Grump Old Guy barbtries Jul 2023 #76

We have a kid who doesn't talk to us. Grumpy Old Guy Jul 2023 #86

i'm sorry to hear that. barbtries Jul 2023 #87

That's sad. Grumpy Old Guy Jul 2023 #90

I am so sorry. stage left Jul 2023 #40

I never had a child to lose, but I have shared the loss of others, and.. TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #41

Oh I am so sorry for your loss. Maraya1969 Jul 2023 #42

thank you Maraya1969 barbtries Jul 2023 #77

Heartbreaking--I know the pain crimycarny Jul 2023 #43

crimycarny, barbtries Jul 2023 #78

Beautiful woman.. forever young.. mountain grammy Jul 2023 #44

🕯️ Duppers Jul 2023 #45

I'm... JoeOtterbein Jul 2023 #46

What a beautiful memorial of your dear daughter, barbtries. 🕯️ thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #47

I misspelled Bekah's name and had no success editing it. I'm so sorry. thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #73

thatcrowwoman, barbtries Jul 2023 #80

What a beautiful young woman (both of you). Lonestarblue Jul 2023 #48

Bekah looks absolutely... luminous (lovely from the inside out). deurbano Jul 2023 #50

Thank you deurbano barbtries Jul 2023 #82

Thank you, and yes, UC Irvine. deurbano Jul 2023 #84

i am too, barbtries Jul 2023 #85

Hugs and love. My heart is with you. Goddessartist Jul 2023 #57

thank you Goddessartist barbtries Jul 2023 #81

she was lovely Skittles Jul 2023 #59

I am so sorry UpInArms Jul 2023 #63

Hugs to you Duncanpup Jul 2023 #64

A lovely tribute redqueen Jul 2023 #65

I looked to what happened... Lithos Jul 2023 #67

yes, she was killed. barbtries Jul 2023 #79

Beautiful daughter & Beartiful Cha Jul 2023 #69

thank you Cha! barbtries Jul 2023 #83

I'm so sorry Bettie Jul 2023 #71

(((🧡))) Deuxcents Jul 2023 #88

I am sorry for your loss mercuryblues Jul 2023 #89

Thanks for sharing these photos FakeNoose Jul 2023 #91

Thank you FakeNoose barbtries Jul 2023 #93

I'm so sorry, barbtries. cilla4progress Jul 2023 #94

thank you cilla4progress! barbtries Jul 2023 #95

Barb, my deepest condolences COL Mustard Jul 2023 #96

thank you COL Mustard barbtries Jul 2023 #98

Such a beautiful tribute. Hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss and the grief that never ends. LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #97

I'm so sorry. yardwork Jul 2023 #99

thank you yardwork. barbtries Jul 2023 #101

I'm glad to hear that. You deserve a place that brings some peace. yardwork Jul 2023 #102

Beautiful daughter. Beautiful tribute. So sorry for your loss. Dark n Stormy Knight Sep 2023 #103

Thank you so much. barbtries Sep 2023 #104