Bereavement

alfredo

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175. She's still fighting.

Sun Nov 5, 2023, 06:02 PM

Nov 2023

They turned off life support including oxygen at 3:30. She’s still breathing. She will not be all good, she’s locked in. She still reacts to pain, but the response is weak.
I’m staying here to the bitter end. I owe it to her. She stood with me through my Crohn’s disease and Cancer, and even if she didn’t I’d still be here.

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Sunday morning I say goodbye to the love of my life [View all] alfredo Nov 2023 OP

so very sorry Alfredo. CANADIANBEAVER69 Nov 2023 #1

Deepest condolences to you. Nt spooky3 Nov 2023 #2

I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2023 #3

How awful. My heart goes out to you and yours. Srkdqltr Nov 2023 #4

So sorry this happened to you and your love Attilatheblond Nov 2023 #5

Horrible--so sorry for this. May she depart in comfort and peace. Wingus Dingus Nov 2023 #6

❤️ underpants Nov 2023 #7

So very sorry for your profound loss. FalloutShelter Nov 2023 #8

I am so sorry, my dear alfredo . . . Your loss is palpable through your words. CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2023 #9

She's still fighting. alfredo Nov 2023 #175

My ❤️ is with you claudette Nov 2023 #177

How good she's still fighting, dear alfredo. I'm glad too that you're staying at her side. ♥ CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2023 #178

Im so sorry Alfredo. CentralMass Nov 2023 #182

❤️ leftieNanner Nov 2023 #10

I'm so sorry, kozar Nov 2023 #11

Alfredo, my heart goes out to you with deep sympathy Deuxcents Nov 2023 #12

My Condolences. onecaliberal Nov 2023 #13

What can one say? I'm so terribly sorry. sinkingfeeling Nov 2023 #14

I'm so, so sorry! Ocelot II Nov 2023 #15

I wish there was something that could be done sdfernando Nov 2023 #16

I'm so sorry for your soul-crushing loss, alfredo. brer cat Nov 2023 #17

Ohhhhh... Alfredo, I am so sorry. Scrivener7 Nov 2023 #18

So sorry to hear this, take care of yourself Shellback Squid Nov 2023 #19

I'm so very sorry Alfredo. Goddessartist Nov 2023 #20

((alfredo)) blm Nov 2023 #21

My condolences to you and your family, alfredo. mobeau69 Nov 2023 #22

I am so sorry for you, nocoincidences Nov 2023 #23

I'm so sorry for your loss. cate94 Nov 2023 #24

I am so sorry that this tragedy is upon you. I have no more words I can offer ms liberty Nov 2023 #25

My deepest sympathies. Always remember the special love. Bundbuster Nov 2023 #26

My sincerest condolences, alfredo Docreed2003 Nov 2023 #27

I'm so sorry, Alfredo. Deepest condolences. Mousetoescamper Nov 2023 #28

Geez...so so sorry! PortTack Nov 2023 #29

I am so very sorry. CottonBear Nov 2023 #30

You have my deepest condolences OhioChick Nov 2023 #31

This is awful to hear PlutosHeart Nov 2023 #32

I'm so sorry. lapucelle Nov 2023 #33

I am so sorry gopiscrap Nov 2023 #34

alfredo barbtries Nov 2023 #35

Oh dear... 2naSalit Nov 2023 #36

I am so very sorry... Trueblue Texan Nov 2023 #37

HUGE group hug, alfredo. elleng Nov 2023 #38

So sad Marthe48 Nov 2023 #39

How very sad, I'm so very sorry. Tesha Nov 2023 #40

I am so sorry Alfredo. That is heartbreaking Evolve Dammit Nov 2023 #41

As a fellow Lexington resident, Mr. Evil Nov 2023 #42

42 years, wow.. Permanut Nov 2023 #43

so very sorry peacebuzzard Nov 2023 #44

My sincere condolences ☮ walkingman Nov 2023 #45

I'm so sorry, Alfredo. How heartbreaking to lose her. highplainsdem Nov 2023 #46

I am so sorry. May her memory comfort you in your grief. chia Nov 2023 #47

I'm so sorry. area51 Nov 2023 #48

I am very, very, very sorry. I can only imagine your pain and wish you the peace of remembering your love. NNadir Nov 2023 #49

I'm so sorry. Chellee Nov 2023 #50

💕 louslobbs Nov 2023 #51

.... Skittles Nov 2023 #52

I am so truly sorry Chicagogrl1 Nov 2023 #53

I am so sorry... Kali Nov 2023 #54

Oh my. MontanaMama Nov 2023 #55

I'm so sorry, alfredo. badhair77 Nov 2023 #56

I am so, so sorry. Diamond_Dog Nov 2023 #57

I'm glad you posted this on Democratic Underground chouchou Nov 2023 #58

My deepest sympathies. CrispyQ Nov 2023 #59

I'm so sorry mountain grammy Nov 2023 #60

I'm so sorry for your loss and heartbreak. femmedem Nov 2023 #61

Oh dear Alfredo Mira Nov 2023 #62

... RKP5637 Nov 2023 #63

I am so very very sorry for your loss. littlewolf Nov 2023 #64

My heartfelt condolences, Alfredo... GiqueCee Nov 2023 #65

I am so sorry for your loss, Alfredo Hekate Nov 2023 #66

So sorry, alfredo. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2023 #67

I'm holding you both in my heart. 🕯️ Think. Again. Nov 2023 #68

Alfredo, I am so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2023 #69

I am so, so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through. MLAA Nov 2023 #70

I'm so sorry Danmel Nov 2023 #71

I'm very sorry Bristlecone Nov 2023 #72

I am so very sorry for your loss, alfredo Silver Gaia Nov 2023 #73

Cherish the memories of your beautiful lives together. housecat Nov 2023 #74

I am so very sorry for your loss, alfredo. Silver Gaia Nov 2023 #75

I'm so sorry. Sending love and prayers to you both. woodsprite Nov 2023 #76

Peace and condolences for your loss. Dulcinea Nov 2023 #77

I'm so very sorry.nt stage left Nov 2023 #78

It eases my mind when I reflect . . . Journeyman Nov 2023 #79

Deepest Sympathies farmbo Nov 2023 #80

From another Kentuckian JohnnyLib2 Nov 2023 #81

I am so sorry for your loss. Yours sounds like a true love story. tblue37 Nov 2023 #82

It sounds like you have a lot of good times to remember. Mr.Bill Nov 2023 #83

Such a loving tribute. 3catwoman3 Nov 2023 #84

So sorry for you 🙏. demosincebirth Nov 2023 #85

I'm sorry to hear of this Alfredo Tom Kitten Nov 2023 #86

I'm sorry for your loss, alfredo. yonder Nov 2023 #87

That 3auld6phart Nov 2023 #88

I am sorry to hear this. Ms. Toad Nov 2023 #89

There are obviously no words that are adequate localroger Nov 2023 #90

I am so very sorry... Alliepoo Nov 2023 #91

So very sorry, alfredo JudyM Nov 2023 #92

My condolences CentralMass Nov 2023 #93

I'm so sorry for your loss. 58Sunliner Nov 2023 #94

soulmates orleans Nov 2023 #95

I am so very sorry, alfredo. pnwmom Nov 2023 #96

I am so sorry alfredo. Maraya1969 Nov 2023 #97

I am so sorry for your loss. NewHendoLib Nov 2023 #98

I'm so sorry Bettie Nov 2023 #99

She was lucky to have you and BigmanPigman Nov 2023 #100

I am so sorry. The suddenness is a whole different shock 1WorldHope Nov 2023 #101

I'm so sorry to hear this Alfredo. Bluethroughu Nov 2023 #102

I am so sorry. blue neen Nov 2023 #103

Holding you and Jae in my heart. n/t TygrBright Nov 2023 #104

My heart felt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Fla Dem Nov 2023 #105

Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss. ancianita Nov 2023 #106

I am so sorry to hear this, alfredo. mnhtnbb Nov 2023 #107

I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Nov 2023 #108

I'm so sorry, Alfredo. sueh Nov 2023 #109

SSo sorry, I cannot imagine what you are going through. essaynnc Nov 2023 #110

Condolences... IrishAfricanAmerican Nov 2023 #111

So sorry, alfredo! pazzyanne Nov 2023 #112

I'm so sorry FemDemERA Nov 2023 #113

Aw, damn... calimary Nov 2023 #114

Heartbreaking.... Bayard Nov 2023 #115

I am so sorry. Gore1FL Nov 2023 #116

I am so sorry. LoisB Nov 2023 #117

How horrible!! Beacool Nov 2023 #118

So sorry Alfredo. May her memory be a blessing. GoneOffShore Nov 2023 #119

I am so sorry for your loss Alfredo. Grumpy Old Guy Nov 2023 #120

My heart goes out to you. Hope22 Nov 2023 #121

I'm so, so sorry democrank Nov 2023 #122

so very sorry markie Nov 2023 #123

So sad to babylonsister Nov 2023 #124

I am so so sorry for your sudden loss happy feet Nov 2023 #125

Condolences alfredo gademocrat7 Nov 2023 #126

My heart breaks for you PJMcK Nov 2023 #127

So sorry for your lost vishnura Nov 2023 #128

I can't begin to understand the sorrow you must feel Klondike Kat Nov 2023 #129

I am so very sorry. Can't imagine what you are going through. You had 42 years which is really very amazing. ratchiweenie Nov 2023 #130

So very sorry for your samplegirl Nov 2023 #131

I am so very sorry rambler_american Nov 2023 #132

Words so often seem inadequate. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2023 #133

An amazing tribute LittleGirl Nov 2023 #134

Holding you both in light and love. Your DU family is here niyad Nov 2023 #135

I'm so sorry, Alfredo. WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2023 #136

Condolences alfredo sarge43 Nov 2023 #137

Asking for healing grace!! lrucks1952 Nov 2023 #138

My heart breaks for you. AllyCat Nov 2023 #139

I am very, very sorry. murielm99 Nov 2023 #140

My heart breaks for you. yellerpup Nov 2023 #141

So sorry about your loss. FuzzyRabbit Nov 2023 #142

That was a tough post to read. Jarqui Nov 2023 #143

Sending love and condolences, alfredo. SalmonChantedEvening Nov 2023 #144

Holding you in my thoughts this morning Attilatheblond Nov 2023 #145

Heartbreaking - I am so sorry jmbar2 Nov 2023 #146

Im so so sorry Sugarcoated Nov 2023 #147

I am so sorry for your loss KS Toronado Nov 2023 #148

So sad to hear of this. Deepest & most sincere condolences, Alfredo Hiawatha Pete Nov 2023 #149

I am so very sorry for your loss. CousinIT Nov 2023 #150

My deepest sympathy. I know what you are going through. Paper Roses Nov 2023 #151

Heart-wrenching cilla4progress Nov 2023 #152

I think it's safe to say that everyone on DU is crushed to read your post Blue Owl Nov 2023 #153

Peace world wide wally Nov 2023 #154

My heart goes out to you. pandr32 Nov 2023 #155

So, so sorry for your loss. iluvtennis Nov 2023 #156

There are not enough words Aaeia Nov 2023 #157

I'm so sorry wryter2000 Nov 2023 #158

Oh my, I am so sorry KT2000 Nov 2023 #159

I am very sorry for your loss. Stuart G Nov 2023 #160

so very sorry kanda Nov 2023 #161

Please add my condolences. I am so very sorry for your loss. n/t PatrickforB Nov 2023 #162

Peace and love to you. I walked that terrible road eight years ago. IA8IT Nov 2023 #163

Alfredo, I am so sorry to learn of this devastating and sudden loss. Tanuki Nov 2023 #164

. . . thatcrowwoman Nov 2023 #165

So sorry for your loss. I have no words. SaveOurDemocracy Nov 2023 #166

God bless. Joinfortmill Nov 2023 #167

So, so sorry. Elessar Zappa Nov 2023 #168

Damn, alfredo True Dough Nov 2023 #169

The worlds always a little less when our best leave us. BigOleDummy Nov 2023 #170

So Sorry for you Alfedo marked50 Nov 2023 #171

I wanted to add: we are here for you Skittles Nov 2023 #172

My deepest condolences yankee87 Nov 2023 #173

Heartbreaking. bullimiami Nov 2023 #174

I am so sorry for your loss. c-rational Nov 2023 #176

Can't find words. ariadne0614 Nov 2023 #179

Oh, I am so very sorry! Lunabell Nov 2023 #180

I'm so sorry for your loss, Alfredo. mia Nov 2023 #181

I know, my husband died 10 months ago Richluu Nov 2023 #183

My sweet Jae has passed on. alfredo Nov 2023 #184