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MrMickeysMom

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6. I believe you are onto something, Sheila… He's needed to work on several things...
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 09:30 PM
Jun 2015

I believed from the onset that he was interested in having a significant other for company so that he wouldn't be "eating dinner alone". He certainly has all the skill sets of running a home and gets out to volunteer at the local senior center. He will separated/divorced going on 5 years, in this new community almost 3 years as a divorced man.

He DOES need to work on being by himself in what I think should be "unconditional" relationships. This thing of having to serve as some role model ("Women like ____ things, right?&quot It's like he forgot, or maybe he never learned before having to GET married upon pregnancy with the ex-wife.

I also agree that she should be avoided. It AIN'T gonna help his real problem, is it? He became a church goer and bible study attendee primarily due to this woman.

I find the strict Ozzie and Harriet act strange, in light of the fact that she primarily wanted a predictable schedule of sex, and was guarded or jealous if anything went off schedule.

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