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jtuck004

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35. Porn follows our culture, I think. No worse than what is on tv. If people can't see unarmed
Sat Nov 1, 2014, 02:24 PM
Nov 2014

people being beaten and or murdered by police as porn, it makes me wonder about their values. Those extensions of the psychic penis the police carry and shoot mean something, yes?

I do think it's worth telling kids that there are things in the world that are phony or vile or hurtful, or sometimes all of those, and can lead you to ruin, but I think she should add in jobs at Walmart, selling things on the phone, and/or becoming a banker if she really wanted to protect him.

I know, the subject was porn, which makes everyone think of sex, but I wish she would broaden the definition and not pretend there is some one entity that is "porn" and that all those things she said about "it" are accepted fact. There isn't, and they aren't.

She may also be teaching her kids unintended ways to learn about stuff as well, that they can be defined in a little narrow way and dismissed, along with all the people who participate.

It just reminded me of "Baptist School". < where in anything that wasn't white, hetero, and missionary style was dirty. Anyone else might as well have been animals, it was porn in their eyes. (unless it was what they were doing behind closed doors, with whomever, and however, of course. good god. real good god).

I kinda took another path. So when I hear stuff like this I know they mean well, but that's not enough.






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but, Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2014 #1
And that ancient statuary depicting sexual acts is porn ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #2
IKR ... it was so powerfully Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2014 #3
It isn't porn zentrum Nov 2014 #51
Sort of like this OP? Doctor_J Nov 2014 #29
if you say so. - Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2014 #30
Bwahahahaha ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #40
+ Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2014 #48
Porn for the most part zentrum Nov 2014 #4
Well, corporations are people. So, it makes sense. Helen Borg Nov 2014 #13
True, sad point n/t zentrum Nov 2014 #37
Just heard in the past few days on NPR, that "Corporate" porn is hitting hard times. Fla Dem Nov 2014 #15
Still the same. zentrum Nov 2014 #50
Ugh. Paternalistic, heterosexist tripe. eggplant Nov 2014 #5
Spam deleted by MIR Team JuanHamonrye Nov 2014 #8
Sigh. eggplant Nov 2014 #31
Agree to a point ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #9
I think a few here didn't read the whole article. ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #10
Do you watch a lot of porn? chervilant Nov 2014 #11
Actually, I do. eggplant Nov 2014 #27
Oh, dear... chervilant Nov 2014 #32
Actually the post made me wonder WHY we have a society that produces the kind of porn we have ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #41
Too true, ism chervilant Nov 2014 #42
Also, chervilant Nov 2014 #16
have your eyes always been that brown JackInGreen Nov 2014 #6
It's just an article ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #7
Thanks for posting this, ism. chervilant Nov 2014 #17
I was welcoming it ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #19
I particularly appreciate chervilant Nov 2014 #20
Me too ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #23
Others don't hurt your feelings, you do. jtuck004 Nov 2014 #22
I was kidding--takes a lot to get to me ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #24
Oh, sure <G> jtuck004 Nov 2014 #26
No, really... Helen Borg Nov 2014 #12
That is what I was wondering also. Correlation does not equal causation. uppityperson Nov 2014 #14
At this point it would be a chicken and egg situation ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #18
Thanks, I am not up on the latest studies. There are too many things associated with porn to make uppityperson Nov 2014 #21
Sounds like someone who just can't get used to the idea that we use calculators now. jtuck004 Nov 2014 #25
+1. eggplant Nov 2014 #28
The title is what a mother would say to her son ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #33
Porn follows our culture, I think. No worse than what is on tv. If people can't see unarmed jtuck004 Nov 2014 #35
Right ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #38
Huh. Well, you just gave me a thought for my entertainment this evening... jtuck004 Nov 2014 #44
LoL! ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #47
Similar thing I told my son angstlessk Nov 2014 #34
It wasn't all that different in the Dark Ages when I was a late bloomer Warpy Nov 2014 #36
LoL ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #39
Reminds me of the Hite Report from the 70's jakeXT Nov 2014 #43
Joanna Russ: The best cure for pornography is sex-- eridani Nov 2014 #45
Incredible essay ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #46
She is basically saying, one size doesn't fit all, but in porn it is portrayed that way. CrispyQ Nov 2014 #49
Love will get you through times with no sex........... DreamGypsy Nov 2014 #52
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