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brer cat

(26,729 posts)
38. I was part of the 70s
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 11:15 AM
Feb 2015

so remember it well, but with deep feelings of regret for many aspects. I can't speak for everyone but from my perspective we were in such a hurry, and you folks of color brought so much baggage to the table that it would have taken us forever if we had to fit all that s&*@ into our agenda. I remember the 70s feminism as largely a white middle class movement where poor women and women of color could ride our coattails, or be lifted up in the wake of our boats or some such nonsense, just don't hold us back, and be grateful for the crumbs you get. At any rate, it wasn't inclusive in any sense of the word. I regret very deeply that I didn't have the opportunity to share that time of life with you younger women of today. You are not silent, you would not have let us call ourselves feminists if we failed to talk to and listen to over half of our sisters.

I don't know what to call it..."The Matriarchy" might work well, but I will tell you it was condescending as hell, and I find that terribly embarrassing today.

I love you bravenak. You bring us some interesting conversations.

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"We do expect respect, support, and trust from our progressive allies, Vincardog Feb 2015 #1
Thank you. bravenak Feb 2015 #3
I believe I understand what I just read in the article, but frankly I'm not sure. BlueJazz Feb 2015 #2
Anything I can help clear up? bravenak Feb 2015 #4
Is the bottom line: We Black women are not recieving the respect and help from ... BlueJazz Feb 2015 #5
Sure. This has been a problem since the beginning. bravenak Feb 2015 #7
"If intersectionality is not a part of feminism, then I guess I'm not a feminist. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #10
Glad to make you smile. bravenak Feb 2015 #11
"I ruined the entire movement by voicing the concerns of black women." Wow. You know, it's sad ... BlueJazz Feb 2015 #12
I did check to see if I messed up and wrote in German or Spanish. bravenak Feb 2015 #14
"Those women were hella strong." From reading about their lives, if they can't get someone... BlueJazz Feb 2015 #17
I wish I was too. bravenak Feb 2015 #18
This post is a thing of beauty Number23 Feb 2015 #35
It definately was on DU. bravenak Feb 2015 #37
Empathy sheshe2 Feb 2015 #6
I know you already know this. bravenak Feb 2015 #8
"By saying I felt marginalized I got marginalized." sheshe2 Feb 2015 #15
It's cool. bravenak Feb 2015 #16
Excellent article. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #9
I'm glad you understand. bravenak Feb 2015 #13
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"I think it's best to discuss stuff, rather than be silent so as to not offend." brer cat Feb 2015 #19
I like that pie/cake thing. Perfect way to say it. bravenak Feb 2015 #20
What really gets me ismnotwasm Feb 2015 #21
I know. I had to go back and seriously read articles on this to figure out wtf. bravenak Feb 2015 #22
It's embarrassing you know? ismnotwasm Feb 2015 #24
Yeah, it is kinda embarassing. bravenak Feb 2015 #25
Heh! ismnotwasm Feb 2015 #30
I'll stop and get popcorn first. bravenak Feb 2015 #33
I already got plenty for all of us, bravenak. sheshe2 Feb 2015 #34
Damn!!! bravenak Feb 2015 #36
I was part of the 70s brer cat Feb 2015 #38
Love you too. bravenak Feb 2015 #39
^^^^This^^^^ sheshe2 Feb 2015 #51
^^^^This^^^^ sheshe2 Feb 2015 #23
I am not sure of the intent here. Please clarify guillaumeb Feb 2015 #26
I am posting it because it's a real problem. bravenak Feb 2015 #27
not wanting to say what you feel guillaumeb Feb 2015 #28
Pretty much. bravenak Feb 2015 #31
just read "America the free" guillaumeb Feb 2015 #29
The poem? bravenak Feb 2015 #32
I wish I knew some Black Women Feminists in real life. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #40
Did you look around on the internet a bit? bravenak Feb 2015 #41
work atmosphere does make it hard to have serious conversations. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #42
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I was raised both ways. bravenak Feb 2015 #45
Thanks Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #46
You're welcome. bravenak Feb 2015 #47
Lolol ... yes, blue/black. I think it depends a lot on the monitor/screen/processor. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #48
Right. bravenak Feb 2015 #49
just tell them ... the only blue dress that matters Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #50
I think layering is easier for me to understand myself. bravenak Feb 2015 #52
yes, I hope it does take the heat off Monica. Good thought. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #53
I've heard the base analogy before. bravenak Feb 2015 #54
I saw it and seems to me that I have experienced all of that as a white woman Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #55
Honestly, it's less about Patricia and more about how our society works. bravenak Feb 2015 #57
Yes, I understand now. That was not right. It is good that conversation is started. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2015 #58
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